I’m Hikoki, a male member.
I don’t think that’s the case.
Most women who come in for screening pass at that stage, so unfortunately, I have to assume your own standards are exceptionally high.
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
No, I don’t think that’s the case. The ideal height I look for in a woman is 150–155 cm. Maybe my preference is a little unusual, though.
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
As everyone says, it’s about things other than height.
Would you describe yourself as cute or elegant?
Are you overweight? How are your conversation skills?
If you’re extremely intense or eccentric, you probably won’t receive any offers, so I think it’s better to reconsider from the start.
First, work on anything that makes people think you’re somehow different from the average person. Take a good look at yourself, and I think you’ll find the answer.
Maezawa from the president’s office here.
I can’t speak for other dating clubs, but at Universe, applicants are not rejected because of their height.
So, speaking only of Universe, I believe you were rejected for a reason other than your height.
That said, since you haven’t provided many details, I can’t tell what the reason was. Even if you had, some things can’t be judged without seeing your photos, and others can’t be known until we’ve actually talked with you.
I think I’ve written several times before about how someone who was previously rejected can make it to the interview stage at Universe, but let me go over it again:
1. Use a different email address.
2. Don’t include your phone number.
3. The name you use when applying doesn’t have to be your real name, so apply under a different name.
4. Request a different branch from the one you applied to last time.
That’s all.
However, if you make it to another interview without addressing the underlying issue, I feel you’ll probably be rejected again.
The most common reasons for rejection, I think, are:
5. Choosing Dating Type A, meaning you only want dinner dates.
6. Being overweight.
7. Speaking condescendingly to the staff.
Number 7 should be easy to fix.
If number 6 applies to you, it may be best to lose some weight before trying again.
As for number 5, if you only want dinner dates or feel uncomfortable with an adult relationship (intimate), you may want to accept that a dating club simply wasn’t the right fit for you.
You may be thinking, “But I heard dinner-only arrangements are okay.”
That may be true, but you would need to be beautiful enough that a man would still want to give you an allowance even for dinner only (no intimacy).
So if you were rejected once, I suspect you may not have met that standard.
If none of 5 through 7 apply to you, try applying again after making the changes in 1 through 4. You may be accepted more easily than you expect.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Height isn’t listed among the reasons for rejecting membership on the site, though...
I checked, and it turns out that Universe Club has plenty of women who are 150 cm or shorter. So it seems there must have been another reason she wasn’t accepted after her interview at Universe Club.
