Maezawa from the president’s office here as well.
> Does asking whether someone is the type who gets aroused easily really serve any purpose?
Are you questioning—or protesting—the club asking women this during their interviews?
I vaguely remember them asking, “Do you like sex?” But as for whether someone gets aroused easily, do you mean that some interview staff ask this while others don’t? I’m not entirely sure.
So, why ask, “Do you like sex?”
To be honest, you might think this question is meaningless too. After all, club staff have no way of knowing whether someone is telling the truth.
But I do think it has some value.
People often say women lie, but for some reason, I feel they tend to be honest about this.
“I do like sex.”
Even when people give the same answer, the way they respond varies.
Some say, “How did you know?”
Others say, “Doesn’t everyone normally like it?”
And some simply say, “I like it, I guess.”
Even if you can’t know the absolute truth, you can get a general sense of how much they like it from the way they answer.
Of course, some people say they don’t really like it that much. They’re being honest.
Some women even ask, “Should I say that I like it?” They’re being honest too.
Since there’s no way to verify whether they’re telling the truth, you could certainly view it as a meaningless question.
Still, I feel it does have some purpose.
I think asking whether someone gets aroused easily is similar.
Everyone has a different standard for what it means to be sensitive or not.
Someone might say, “I’m very sensitive,” but perhaps it’s nothing particularly remarkable.
On the other hand, there are extremely sensitive people who go, “Aaaaaah!” the moment you touch them there.
I don’t think sensitivity has much to do with technique.
With that in mind, I get the impression that perhaps you’re not the type who gets aroused very easily.
Maybe you respond when you’re with someone who has good technique, but not when you’re with someone who doesn’t.
I can’t say whether I’m right, but even if you can’t know for sure, you can still get a general idea of what someone might be like. So I do think the question has some value.
That said, if you mean that you find questions like that unpleasant and wish they wouldn’t ask them, I agree.
But if you’re talking about club staff, please understand it as their way of trying to appeal to men somehow.
If you’re already dating the man, he’ll find out once you go to a hotel anyway, even without asking, so it may indeed be a pointless question.
On the other hand, if a man hears, “I’m not very sensitive,” and then decides to end the date after dinner because he doesn’t want to waste his time, I suppose the question would have served a purpose.
Though if there are men like that, I can’t help thinking they really don’t understand women at all.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think he was asking because hearing you talk about what you like a man to do for you and what feels good is meant to turn on his erotic switch. In other words, the question may seem meaningless to you, but it probably has meaning for the man who asked it. Why would he ask without understanding something like that?
By the way, I don’t know any women who enjoy having their clitoris pinched, but there are women who enjoy having their nipples bitten or pinched. One woman even told me she wanted me to be rougher, but I was worried it would hurt and couldn’t bring myself to use more force.
I’m Aya, a female member.
Men who ask questions like that may be watching too much porn.
You know how porn often has those interview scenes with adult actresses, where they ask things like, “What turns you on?” I’ve always thought it was strange to ask such a rigid, one-size-fits-all question when the answer depends on the time and situation.
