I’m Aya, a female member.
I believe I’ve met around 30 people seriously so far, but only three of them offered me a monthly arrangement—about one in ten, I guess. All of them were people I saw frequently and became close with. If I have the time and energy, I actually prefer monthly arrangements.
The reason is that when I’m handed money after intimacy, I may sound harsh saying this, but it makes me feel like I’m engaging in prostitution.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
At the woman’s request, we do a pay-per-meeting arrangement. What I make sure of is that the total allowance stays the same each month.
It’s been that way ever since we started seeing each other, even though it’s been a long time now.
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
How about either:
- A monthly arrangement with pay-per-meeting payments (that’s basically a half-quota system, right?)
- Or a monthly arrangement where any meetings beyond the agreed number are paid for individually.
For the extra meetings, it should be fine to give the allowance when they happen—even if the details weren’t discussed in advance, as long as you’ve talked about them beforehand.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I know this question has been asked countless times, but I’m firmly in favor of pay-per-meeting. I don’t want to argue over how often we meet if we set up a monthly arrangement.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
The best approach is whatever the woman you like is looking for. So in my case, both my pay-per-meeting allowance and my monthly arrangement amount vary from woman to woman.
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I’m Nana Ayase, a female member ♡
“Monthly” makes me think of a parking garage.
I think a monthly arrangement is fine too, but I recommend waiting until you’ve been seeing each other for at least three months—not starting that way—so you can get to know each other and feel comfortable.
It’s incredibly upsetting when you give someone money and they disappear. I hope you find someone wonderful.
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