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Jun 15, 2021 14:38
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I haven’t sent him anything because I thought I might be bothering him.
I sent a LINE message because I was worried when I couldn’t reach him, but it was marked as read and I never got a reply. At least, it seems he isn’t dead.
Is it safe to assume that our relationship is over? Things continued with this papa for about six months. He has a wife—do you think she found out?
I just wish he’d said something, even a final word…
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Other
After being in almost exactly the same situation, I suddenly heard from them recently—after more than a year had passed. They had been dealing with health issues.
Marika
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I understand that ending a relationship can be difficult, with all sorts of circumstances and feelings involved, but ideally, both people would like to part on good terms and move on cleanly.
Even if you tell me that leaving someone on read or blocking them is a clean way to end things…
Hmm… is it really?
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
That papa (male supporter) seems a little dishonest. Leaving your messages on read probably means he wants to let things fade out without having to be direct. Move on and look for someone else.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Paper Airplane, a male member.
Next, try sending her a New Year’s greeting or a birthday message on LINE.
You might see each other again in six months—or even a year or two from now…
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office will answer this one as well.
For example, you might start seeing a new woman, end up with more partners than you can manage, and have to let someone go.
In cases like that, I think it’s possible for things to simply end without either person saying anything.
I do feel it would be better to at least explain things properly at the end, but I can understand how it might be left unresolved because it’s difficult to say.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
That’s unfortunate. If you can’t think of any particular reason, it’s probably safe to assume that his spouse found out or he ran out of money. He’s probably too embarrassed to reply.