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May 10, 2021 01:38
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m in my 30s too, but I’ve heard that some male members in their 20s and 30s say things like, “I’m young, right? So adult relationships are fine, right?” or “I’m young, right? So a lower allowance should be fine, right?” So I think it’s best to meet the person and confirm the allowance before making any decisions.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the president’s office, and I’ll answer your question as well.
You can write something like “up to your 30s” in your profile. Not many women do this, but some do.
That said, I think appearance matters more to you than the person’s actual age, so what’s important is whether they look younger than their age.
A 50-year-old who looks like she’s in her 30s would be fine, while a 30-year-old who looks like she’s in her 50s wouldn’t be.
In that case, though, you’ll ultimately have to decide after meeting the person. You could write something like, “I’m looking for someone who looks no older than her 30s.”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Since there’s a section where you can state your preferred age range for the men you meet, I think you should write either “up to your 20s” or “early 30s at most.”
Men may still send offers even if you set the age range somewhat younger, so I recommend being fairly strict about the age limit.
You can also answer that in the video, so it’s probably best to be reasonably clear there as well.
If you make it clear in those two places, I don’t think you need to mention it in the comments. Writing it in the comments may come across as harsh and could affect the offers you receive.
So, it seems best to be quite strict in the preferred-age section, give a clear answer in the video—even if phrased gently—and leave it out of the comments!
Other
I’m Taro, a male member.
You can easily find it with a quick Google search. Apparently, 30-somethings make up 35%. Since people in their 20s account for another 7%, those 30 and under make up 42%—nearly half.
https://universe-club.jp/women/introduct/
Also, if you have clear criteria, it’s better to state them openly during the interview. You could even write them in your profile comments yourself. It’s partly a matter of wording, but if something is non-negotiable, letting them know in advance saves both sides from wasting time, so I appreciate that.