I’m a male member, and it’s been over a year since I joined. I made offers to around 40 women, and 33 of those encounters developed into adult relationships (with the others, our schedules didn’t work out or I never received a response). I’m now able to maintain a rotation with five women, meeting each of them once or twice a month.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I joined eight months ago, and I’m currently seeing three women at least once a month. One of them was the first woman I offered to meet, just the day after joining. The date was arranged four days after I joined. Just like the person in their 60s who was unsure about joining, seeing this woman was what made me decide to sign up. Since it was my first dating-club date, I remember being pretty nervous. The other woman I’m still seeing was arranged about a month after I joined—my 14th date. The third woman was arranged about three months after I joined, and was my 43rd date. I thoroughly read through this anonymous Q&A site to prepare, and things have naturally continued with women I’m compatible with, so I don’t remember having any particular difficulties. I keep thinking, “Dating clubs are amazing. I wish I’d joined sooner.”

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I’m in my third year as a member. I’ve made offers to six women, three of whom I never ended up dating, and I’ve had an adult relationship (intimate) with one. It was with my sixth offer that things progressed to an adult relationship, but by then, six months had already passed since I joined. The woman I’m still seeing was my sixth offer, and we’ll soon have been together for three years. It hasn’t exactly been difficult being together, but at first, our ideas about the relationship were different. I saw it as a contracted-mistress arrangement, while she viewed it as a part-time job earning money through her body. It took about a year for us to get on the same page that this was, above all, a contracted-mistress arrangement. She’s still quite young, but she’s come to understand our relationship style, and we’re getting along very well.

I’m a 60-something still trying to find my way. Has it really been four years already?! During my membership interview, they showed me photos of the women, and there was one who immediately caught my eye. I joined on the spot. A few days later, the date was arranged—our first date. Since she was Type B, we just had a casual dinner that day. I suggested an overnight date next time, and she readily agreed! It happened that very weekend!! Those were the days… Mr. Flag Maker, maybe I’m evolving toward ordinary dating and relationships too… lol

I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. Hmm, a year, huh? Rather than saying it’s been difficult, aren’t you starting to get a little tired of that kind of relationship? Like something’s missing? I’ve changed my approach now and see meeting people through Universe as being introduced for a normal relationship, not papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). It’s unconventional, though.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who joined around the same time as you. Thirty-three is a lot—impressive! I’ve made more than twice as many offers as you, but the number of women I’ve actually met probably isn’t even half that. There was the woman who was our first offer when we joined, the one I met around a turning point during the COVID era, and several others who left lasting memories. More than counting how many women I’ve met, I feel incredibly fortunate to have found someone with truly special chemistry among so many women. One of the club’s amazing advantages is that you can meet, in as little as three weeks, someone you might otherwise encounter only once every three or five years. And it’s surprising that, after six months or a year, you may even find an absolute favorite among them. > Have you ever had any difficulties in your relationships? At a certain point, you’ll have enough women you see regularly. From there, I think I gradually became able to narrow things down to women who matched me—not just in conversation and physical chemistry, but also in terms of our relationship, how often we met, what we did together, and how much time we spent together. I have an absolute favorite now, so if she ever asked me to, I’d be perfectly fine with leaving the club immediately.