Thank you for your question.
I’m Kida, the representative, and I’ll be answering.
When I woke up this morning, my wife had sent me a screenshot of this question on LINE. For some reason, I ended up taking her to Kani Doraku as an apology—and was put in charge of cracking the shells and dipping the meat in crab vinegar.
It’s completely unreasonable.
As for whether you can come in for an interview, of course you can. Under our call center’s guidelines, applicants aged 45 or older are often asked to send us a photo of their face in advance for an initial screening, so that will probably apply here.
Having read your question, I don’t think you’ll have any trouble passing the first interview.
For the second interview, we decide whether to accept or reject someone based on whether she is “a woman who is likely to receive offers,” rather than simply on whether she is attractive. It’s about whether there is demand for you. So please show the interviewer your enthusiasm and pass with flying colors.
I once interviewed a woman who was around 47 and normally lived in France and Singapore. She was truly intelligent, had an amazing figure, and was erotically uninhibited to an almost perverse degree. I was certain she would receive plenty of offers, but in the end, she received none.
I remember thinking that if the male members of Universe Club had been a gathering of eighty-year-old perverts like the UN Secretary-General or some Federal Reserve chair—or whatever—she probably would have found a match. I felt terrible for her.
So even if you don’t pass the interview, please interpret it as meaning, “Universe still has a long way to go.”
And now for some unsolicited advice.
It’s very clear to me that you have spent years trying to stay beautiful for your husband, and that your husband loves you.
The fact that your husband spent ten years going to adult-entertainment establishments instead of cheating or trying to take a mistress unquestionably means that he loves you.
Adult-entertainment establishments are, by design, places for men to experience pleasure while ejaculating. If a man is looking for affection, pseudo-romance, or anything other than ejaculation, he chooses a different kind of establishment.
Perhaps he chose those places as an outlet for the semen automatically produced by male DNA, so that he wouldn’t burden you.
A dating club is not a place to come and test love, as you are hoping to do. Your knife’s edge is certainly sharp. Why not cut your husband to pieces every day?
Then come to the interview.
As for revenge, I recommend Kani Doraku.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I’m not really the person you were looking to hear from, and this may be none of my business, but I wanted to say a few things.
If you’re asking whether you can have an interview, I believe you can complete the application process to request one. After that, the club staff will decide whether to accept or reject you.
However, regarding the real issue this time:
> “At my age, finding out that my husband had betrayed me has left me feeling even more depressed.”
Are you shifting the blame onto your husband? Or should you also carefully consider whether there was anything you could have done to prevent being betrayed?
When people are satisfied, things tend to remain stable. I think various problems arise precisely because that isn’t the case.
You’re free to do whatever you choose at your own responsibility, but please start by establishing some stability in your immediate surroundings before moving forward.
Perhaps this applies to me as well, but I do wonder whether living under the same roof while things have grown cold between you is really a good idea.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member with a long-term girlfriend who’s about the same age as you.
I met her when she was in her twenties and used to say, “I’m worth 100 million yen.” I liked her so much that we even got engaged.
If you’re that beautiful too, I’m sure you’d get not only interviews but also acceptance and offers...
That said, my daughter just said, “Sixteen is already an old lady!” So you’re three times her age...
Once you’re around your late forties, both men and women are usually told they look at least ten years younger than they actually are—often 12 or 13 years younger. No one would ever say you look only seven or eight years younger; it would be far too rude, and they certainly wouldn’t dare say it.
By the way, are there any men who’d like to date a woman who’s been an avid reader of this site since before joining?
