This is Mack, one of the respondents.

I’m Hikouki, a male member who likes kissing fairly well. I think there are probably a couple of kisses between ⑴ and ⑵, and those are the kisses I enjoy. Starting with ⑴, like actors in a drama embracing as they kiss, we lightly hold each other’s lips, pull away and kiss again, pull away again and kiss, gently teasing the upper lip, then the lower lip. Then, instead of pulling away between kisses, we keep our lips together slightly parted. Without sucking, our tongues softly touch and intertwine just a little, as if searching for each other’s tongues. At the same time, we caress the back and thighs, looking for sensitive areas and gradually moving closer to caressing that area, until we eventually begin caressing there as well. I don’t do much deep, sucking-style kissing, so it might only happen when things reach a climax. The three things that make me lose interest in a club woman on the first day are: ⚫︎ She suddenly starts kissing intensely, as if trying to suck on my lips. (That’s way too unnatural.) ⚫︎ She starts making sounds the moment I begin caressing her. (There’s no way she’d react that quickly.) ⚫︎ She starts moving her hips the moment I begin caressing her. (She wouldn’t start moving that quickly either.) The reason kissing is important is that it allows you to connect and feel each other, but that’s not all. While kissing, you can also learn a great deal about your compatibility from how natural the kissing feels, as well as whether your pace, rhythm, speed, intensity, and overall flow match. If we can’t feel anything through the kissing, or if I can’t find any sensitive areas on her back, thighs, or anywhere else while caressing her, then even after starting to caress her clitoris or that area, her reactions will be completely different after ten seconds—either exaggeratedly acted or nonexistent. At that point, I give up on our compatibility and switch to wrapping things up quickly. The electric massager may also make an appearance.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Besides the kind of kiss that involves entwining tongues, I think there’s also (4), a kiss that stimulates the lips. If you stimulate both the upper and lower lips at once, you end up looking like a Magikarp（笑), so you do one at a time. Apparently, this was the kind of kiss preferred by the older woman I dated in my twenties—the one who said sex with older men was good. At dating clubs, it’s usually (1), and if the woman starts bringing out her tongue during (1), things may shift to (2). Come to think of it, I seem to remember moving from (2) to (3) or (4) on the bed as well. Just as people have preferences in how they like receiving fellatio or cunnilingus, it seems only natural that they have preferences about how they like to be kissed too. > Kamihikōki I haven’t met an overly theatrical woman like that at a club so far, but I can see how it would be a turnoff. Come to think of it, I remembered that I started being completely passive at adult entertainment venues because overly exaggerated performances turned me off and made me stop moving. If I ever meet an overly theatrical woman, my passive-mode switch will probably turn on.

I’m Meg, a female member. Sencho! You’re already great in bed, but if you get good at kissing too, you’ll become the ultimate Mac-san (*＞∇＜)ﾉ I’d love for you to do all of 1 through 3… And besides… I absolutely love passionate kissing. I’ve recently realized that I’m a total kissing addict… Haha!