And how do women feel about their papas…
What kind of feelings do you have for them?
Do you like them as a romantic partner, see them like a child, think of them as a substitute parent—or maybe just an ATM?
I imagine there are all kinds of perspectives.
I’m BB7, a male member.
To me, she’s more than just an acquaintance—she’s a close female friend.
I do have some romantic feelings, but nothing intense or heavy like when I was younger. She’s someone important to me, a partner in a relationship where we can both inspire and positively influence each other.
Even when I give her money, it feels like giving an allowance to my own daughter—I do have a daughter, by the way.
That said, fewer than one in ten relationships continue to that level.
When things end after just one or two meetings, I don’t develop any particular feelings for them.
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I don’t really see myself as anything special, but I’d appreciate it if women could simply see me as “money” and keep things transactional.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I wonder what I am to her.
I wouldn’t say I’m her boyfriend.
She’s not my daughter, but she feels like a friend who’s almost like a daughter—very much like one, actually (笑).
She’s not my granddaughter either…
When I think about it that way, I wonder how she sees me.
I’m not her boyfriend…
I don’t feel like her father, either.
I guess she probably sees me as an older man.
An older man she doesn’t mind having her breasts touched by.
(When I asked her if she disliked me touching her body, she said she didn’t…)
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Since I pay an allowance and make an effort to be considerate, I don’t have any romantic feelings whatsoever. I may think she’s cute or a good girl, though.
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I’m “Paper Airplane,” a male member.
I may be a little unusual, but I find myself liking my wife and my girlfriends more and more as the years go by. One of my girlfriends and I have been together for decades, and I still probably love my wife the most. I think I’ll continue staying in touch with both my wife and my girlfriends until the day I die—or until we’re no longer able to contact each other.
So I’m the type who stays in relationships long-term without breaking up. Since I grow fonder of people over time, I suppose I’m the kind of person who keeps feeding the fish even after catching them.
Ideally, I’d like the women I meet through the club to become long-term partners too—perhaps as substitutes for, or younger versions of, my girlfriends.
That’s why, for now, I’m not looking to make more offers and find someone new. I’d rather cherish the person I’m currently seeing.
However, relationships through the club are based on an allowance agreement, so at first, the more often we meet, the more it can feel like an obligation. I wonder whether that can naturally develop into a long-term relationship—lasting over ten years—starting from a club arrangement.
I’ve only recently joined, so I can’t really predict what will happen yet.
Fortunately, the uncertainty itself makes me excited, and it’s allowing my feelings to grow.
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I’m Meg, one of the female members.
I see him as someone like a boyfriend.
But I wonder how the men see it…
If they’re seeing other women too, I wonder what they think of me.
Now I’m getting curious!
P.S. With that photo of you, Papuwa, even your junior coworker would be instantly smitten (*´-`)
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I’m a male member based in Seattle.
She’s not my girlfriend, so I treat her like an important friend and keep a respectful distance. I only contact her often enough that it doesn’t become a nuisance.
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