I have a fake business card made for dating arrangements.

I’m a BB7 male member. I’m married, so from the start, women seem to understand that this is a transactional relationship. But when the other person is single, do some women end up developing real feelings or wanting to get married? Thinking about that makes me feel sorry for women who become serious about it. Maybe I’m just taking things too seriously… As for making fake business cards, it feels almost like something a con artist would do. I can’t help wondering why anyone would go that far. Is it to make the other person trust them by handing over a business card? I feel even more sorry for women who become serious about it. I suppose this is all a club like this really amounts to.

I’m Adventure Merchant, a columnist. Honestly, this question really annoyed me, so I wanted to share my own answer… > I have fake business cards made for dating. > There’s no way I can reveal my real name or identity to women I’m only seeing for fun. → That’s your stance, and I think that’s perfectly fine. Personally, I’d rather choose not to hand out a business card at all than give someone a fake one. So if I give out a card, it’s a real one. (Though I’ve only given one to a very small number of people.) > If they start prying, I cut them off. > I know there’s always someone else to take their place. → Again, that’s your stance, and there’s nothing wrong with that. > Countless women say things like “I love you,” “I want us to become closer,” or “I want to get married” without understanding this. > They don’t even realize that saying such things will get them cut off. > Maybe the club should educate them about that. → This is the part that really irritated me. Even if people meet through a dating club, it’s still a relationship between two human beings. Someone may genuinely fall in love. I don’t think it’s unnatural for them to think, “I love you,” “I want us to become closer,” or “I want to get married.” Among both female and male members, there are surely people who want to become genuinely close and pursue a relationship with marriage in mind. With people who want a serious romantic relationship, the questioner simply has a 【different stance】. I have no problem with someone pursuing their own approach in their own way. But treating your own stance as though it were the standard, and saying that people with a different approach—those who want a serious relationship—should be “educated”… You have no right to dictate how other people should approach relationships. So, that was my little rant（笑).

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. You must be quite popular with women. The fact that you’re asking this makes me wonder whether you had no choice but to end things with a favorite woman in this way. However, I don’t think the club gets involved in matters like that, so it would be more realistic to think about how you interact with the woman yourself and avoid letting things reach that point. I hope you’re able to maintain a comfortable distance in your arrangement.

I'm Saito, a columnist ♪ Do I need a business card?

I’m Meg, a female member. It’s just fun, yet you call it “education”?~ ( ￣▽￣) —From a Cinderella dreaming away in a garter belt and thong.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Since this is a romantic game facilitated by the club, there’s no need to be overly guarded or nervous. Because there’s an allowance involved from the start, why not immerse yourselves in it and enjoy it several times more? “I love you,” “I want us to be closer,” even “I want to marry you”—because it’s through the club, both men and women can exchange these kinds of words far more freely than in everyday life, and I think that’s one of the club’s greatest appeals. I think you should properly discuss what you’re both looking for on the first date, or by the third or fourth meeting at the latest. Ideally, talk about it as early as possible on the first date, communicate your feelings, and gradually build a deep sense of trust over time. This applies to both men and women, but women in particular are creatures who want to believe in men. More than men realize, women want to keep being deceived by men… Ah, no, that’s not what I mean—they’re Cinderellas who want to be allowed to dream… So give her lines worthy of a fairy tale. If possible, let both of you feel as though you’ve stepped into a dream world. Precisely because it starts with money involved, you can quickly immerse yourselves in the game of being lovers—and enjoy it without worrying about being rejected or making mistakes, unlike in everyday life.