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Jan 22, 2020 22:07
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Other
This is Saito, your columnist♪
It seems like you’re conveying your feelings through nods and gestures while thinking things through, but sometimes it can be more appealing to say them out loud.
Depending on the situation, people may see you in one of two ways:
- As someone nicely supporting the man
- As a rich man’s hanger-on
It really depends on the atmosphere between the two of you.
Other
I’m Adventure Merchant, a column writer.
Whether or not you’re paying for something, there’s never any harm in saying thank you. I think it’ll make people like you more.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Hikōki, a male member.
If you normally do it, I think it’s fine to act as you usually would.
If you don’t normally do it, there’s no need to force yourself.
Women who have lived abroad for a long time, or who get genuinely delighted just when a server—usually a man—speaks to them, are naturally accustomed to it and handle it smoothly. Even if only for a moment, it can make everyone around them feel comfortable.
Otherwise, being yourself is best.
迷わない70代
Male
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中（笑）
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m in my 60s and still finding my way.
I agree with what Meg said.
For me, a simple, natural smile is enough. But when she makes a point of properly greeting the owner or chef who sees us off at the restaurant, it makes me especially happy—I feel it was worth bringing her there.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
When getting out of a taxi:
Turn toward the driver and give them a smile and a little bow.
At a restaurant:
“Thank you for the meal.” (with a smile)
To your gentleman:
“Thank you very much.” (with an extra-special smile♪)
How does that sound?