Thank you for your question.
Representative Kida will answer.
You’re wondering whether to register with a dating club to save money for a future divorce and life overseas, but you’re worried that someone you know might be among the registered male members. You’d also like to know whether all members can see your profile photo—is that correct?
Unless you make a specific request when registering, we’ll take a clear, flattering photo of your face, and it will be visible to all registered male members.
If you’re currently married and absolutely cannot let your husband or anyone you know find out, please tell our staff when you register. We can blur your face or frame the photo so that your face isn’t shown.
In that case, people you know probably won’t be able to identify you from your profile.
Incidentally, there have only been two cases at our club where a woman’s identity was discovered from her profile, and both occurred in 2012, the year we opened. There may have been other cases that never came to light because, even if a man thought, “Oh, I know her,” he didn’t tell her. The men who register here may have their own reasons for keeping quiet and may not mention it to anyone.
In rare cases, when a woman says she doesn’t want her face shown on the site, our staff may strongly advise against it. Their reasoning is that if she isn’t exceptionally beautiful or otherwise particularly distinctive, she won’t receive offers without showing her face, so there would be little point in registering—for either of you.
But please don’t misunderstand. If you take care of your appearance and your health, you can register without showing your face, and I believe you’ll still receive offers. You don’t need to be exceptionally beautiful; what matters is being an attractive married woman with an ordinary, approachable look.
As for your goal of saving money to divorce and move overseas someday, I think it would be a good idea to discuss it with the male members as well. Rather than simply asking them to pay, you could ask for their advice on your plans and ideas.
If you post online saying, “I want to get divorced and move overseas. I’m not unattractive, and I want to save money through a dating club,” you’ll probably receive a lot of negative reactions—but that’s all jealousy.
You’re thinking desperately about how to make your own life shine. No one has the right to deny you that.
When you feel ready, please don’t hesitate to contact us.
*Please understand, however, that our on-site staff do not pass everyone through the screening process indiscriminately.*
