Blocking her or leaving her messages unread is completely unacceptable.
For an older man to put on a nice-guy act just to protect his own image is simply pathetic.
Being rejected affects a woman’s pride, so clearly explaining the reason is a gentleman’s duty.
“I’m sorry to say this, but you don’t meet the standards I’m looking for. (Then list the shortcomings.)”
“Unfortunately, there’s a problem with the cost-effectiveness of this arrangement for me. (Then show the calculation.)”
“Regrettably, the level of service you provide is insufficient. (Then list what you were hoping for.)”
“I’m sorry, but it seems we’re not a good match. (Then explain your feelings.)”
Hurt her feelings??
Women are creatures who surpass men in strength and intelligence.
Making them even stronger is the final service owed by the man who made the offer.
They will surely put it to good use.
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
Men are cute creatures because they think foolishly.
Women are cute creatures because they do foolish things.
If this were a company, though, the former would occasionally produce a billionaire, while the latter would definitely go out of business—or at least carry serious risks.
That said, plenty of male business owners have made moves they never would have before once their companies grew, only to lose everything in an instant.
It would probably be interesting if both types existed.
Paper Airplane has so many great quotes… lol.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Doing something like that will only make you come across as an unpleasant or creepy man. Unfortunately, I don’t think it’ll do you any good going forward.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
That’s a good perspective. Here’s another way to look at it...
Since the man is providing financial support, I think he naturally expects a lot when it comes to ending things—and often, the other person hasn’t met those expectations.
But my ideal ending would be for a woman I’m seeing on a monthly arrangement to leave on her own when she no longer needs me, saying something like, “I feel bad, but I’m no longer someone who needs you.” Maybe that’s the final form of the man who made the offer—I find myself wondering.
So, when will that happen? Right now, we’re still fully in the middle of our relationship, and she has a firm hold on me with no intention of letting go.
When will she finally let me go? In a way, I’m looking forward to finding out（笑）
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
As you said, women surpass men in both strength and intelligence.
I think men are cute because they have silly ways of thinking, while women are cute because they do silly things.
So I’m afraid it’s simply impossible for men to rise from our childish thought processes to the level of women…
I’d be grateful for your understanding.
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