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Dec 29, 2019 08:29
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Meg
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
My papa (a male supporter) gave me his business card right from the start. I was actually surprised and thought, “Oh? Is he really okay with revealing his identity like this?”
At the same time, it made me feel reassured.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
It depends on the person, but if I’m asked, I’ll honestly share my last name, nearest station, and type of work or industry.
However, I never disclose my workplace, as a precaution against potential trouble.
Other
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Since breaking things off can leave hard feelings, I think it’s best for both sides to follow a “don’t ask, don’t answer” approach…
But surprisingly, people can end up talking about things outside the arrangement pretty easily. It’s probably best to keep that in mind.
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I also have one person with whom we’re both completely aware of the relationship.
To be honest, “foolish” doesn’t quite cover it—we’re both idiots.
But since we’re two idiots, she emails me every day and we stay in touch（笑）
The one difference is our age—we’re very far apart.
When we first met, I thought, “Seriously?” But she was sincere, and that’s how it’s been ever since.