Do any of you—men or women—have a partner you see for dinner only (no intimacy)?
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Has it always been that way with them from the beginning?
Or is it a relationship where you went to a hotel together once, but afterward it became dinner only (no intimacy)?
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Well, if it’s dinner only, then no thanks.
I already have more than enough opportunities for that through ordinary dating, and there are plenty through my entertainment-industry connections too.
I use an elite dating club specifically to avoid things taking a strange turn in those kinds of situations.
So, if I’m using an elite dating club, there’s absolutely no point or value in meeting a woman who only wants dinner.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
- Dinner-only relationships (I’m not interested in sex—not in a bad way)
- Sex-focused relationships (where we almost always go straight to a hotel)
- Dinner-and-sex relationships (sometimes we go to a hotel afterward, while other times we just part ways after dinner)
Most of my offers are C, with the occasional B. Even with B, sometimes there’s an adult relationship (intimate), while with C, sometimes it’s dinner only.
As long as both people’s needs and desired type of relationship match, you can build any kind of relationship.
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I’m in my 30s and a new member.
A pay-per-meeting, dinner-only arrangement with an allowance is something I’ll do only for the first few dates with a Type B woman. I can’t continue a “dinner-only” arrangement long-term because I’m not in a position to enjoy that kind of relationship yet.
When I like a woman, I inevitably want things to develop beyond dinner, so dinner-only arrangements eventually come to an end.
Even if I really liked her, if we kept meeting just for dinner and I only gave her an allowance, I’d probably regret it on the train ride home, thinking, “What am I even doing? lol”
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I’m a male member from Seattle.
I’m looking for dinner-only arrangements, and I’ve made offers to two A-type women. Both profiles hinted at it, but they turned out to be virgins after all.
I already have another woman I’m seeing regularly for an adult relationship, and I get tired if I have sex two days in a row, so I don’t do that very often. Instead, I invite these two out for dinner only once or twice a month, usually the day after an adult date.
I give them an allowance including transportation, and we go out for meals, movies, exhibitions, and things like that. They’re both minors and incredibly cute, so even just looking at them is soothing. They’re also great conversationalists and a lot of fun.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I don’t have anyone like that now, but in the past I had several girls who were dinner only (no intimacy). In every case, I started seeing them with the intention of eventually going to a hotel.
However, they weren’t interested in that, and things ended awkwardly when I invited them to a hotel. These days, I believe that in this world, the first impression is crucial and there’s no point in taking too much time.
I’ve never continued a dinner-only relationship after the hotel arrangement ended. Even when I’m already seeing someone, I still make new offers, so I don’t have time for half-hearted relationships.
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