Are there many men who belong to multiple clubs? Also, if you found out that the girl you’re seeing was registered with another club as well, would that put you off?

I’m Saito, the columnist♪ I’m a member of four clubs as well. Rather than learning about romance, you can really gain insight into women’s true feelings. You see women who change their own value depending on the club, and women over 30 who still ask for the same allowance they did five years ago. It’s fascinating and very educational to see how their lives and pride are reflected in these choices.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I don’t know about the other male members who belong to the club. That said, it seems some people belong to multiple clubs. > If you found out that the girl you’re seeing also belonged to another club, would you lose interest? In my case, I wouldn’t. I suppose it would come down to financial power and a little competition between the men… (笑) It would probably depend on who could offer more—and who was the better man. But these women aren’t here for romance, education, or business know-how; they’re looking for financial support, so it’s tough for men with lower incomes. (笑) Also, if you get too carried away, you have to worry about illness. Please be careful about that as you go about it.

I’m in my 30s and new to the club. Men generally benefit from having more women to choose from, while women are, in a sense, the ones being chosen in the first place. Since the number of offers may also be limited if you’re registered with only one club, some people join multiple clubs thinking, “I might as well try registering with several,” or “The quality of the men may differ from club to club.” That said, there are also both men and women who prefer to take things slowly at their own pace and remain registered with just one club. Personally, I don’t care at all whether a woman is registered with other clubs, and I don’t pry. Even if she openly mentions that she’s active with other clubs, or I happen to find out somehow, I wouldn’t be put off—I simply wouldn’t think much of it. If a woman would start feeling turned off just because she heard that, I probably wouldn’t already be seeing her regularly in the first place. If it were a woman I really liked, it’s hard to put into words, but I’d probably feel more motivated in a positive way—like, “I should work harder to become an even better man.” lol