Tips Sep 12, 2018 21:53

I’m a 26-year-old office worker, Type B, and it’s been two and a half months since I registered without receiving a single offer. I’ve realized that I’m not particularly young anymore, and apparently I’m not attractive enough in terms of appearance either.

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The interviewer was so enthusiastic while talking with me and taking my photos that I ended up getting my hopes up. It’s really sad—can I do anything besides continue waiting?
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Thank you for your question. I’m Kida, the representative, and I’ll answer this one. Whenever a question comes in, an email is sent to every branch, so all the coordinators read it (although, despite that, no one actually answers). They’re probably searching the member site right now, wondering, “Who could this be?” The male members may also be searching for someone using keywords like “office worker,” age 26, Type B, all areas, joined around the beginning of July. So, based on who I think you might be, I’ll offer some advice. First of all, I’m not sure whether you can really trust a coordinator who gets overly excited. A fun interview doesn’t necessarily mean it was a good interview, although some coordinators may think it does. I consider an interview that leads to offers to be a good interview, so perhaps yours didn’t go particularly well. I’m sorry… **26-year-old office worker, Type B** There’s nothing wrong with these settings, but they’re fairly ordinary. Unless you’re reasonably attractive, men won’t click on your thumbnail. And even if they view your profile, you need something that catches their attention. You have three videos, the mistress compatibility test, comments from women, and a properly written, positive staff comment, so there’s no problem with the content itself. So why aren’t you receiving any offers? Personally, I think it may come down to your photos. Your selfies are cuter, so the staff member’s photography skills may not have been very good. Your outfit isn’t particularly flattering either. Even if you have a good figure, it won’t come across in photos unless your waist, hips, and curves show a little more. I’m guessing you actually do have a good figure. With that in mind, I recommend having your photos retaken. If you’re in Osaka, I think Mano or Mishima could take photos that give women a distinct character—not just make them look “especially cute.” Another option would be to leave the club and try again through another club or an app. Since dating sites for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) let you register with just an email address, you could try registering as a man and browsing the women’s photos. That might give you some ideas about different strategies. In any case, whether you receive offers or not comes down to how you present and market yourself. If Rino Sashihara came to an interview looking exactly as she does, I’d probably set her as Gold—but she’s Japan’s top idol. She succeeded through talents other than looks. I’ve gone on at length and probably sounded rather presumptuous. I’m sure the other staff members or writers will come up with something more helpful.
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