What are your thoughts on wearing a wedding ring on dates?

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I’m a married woman in my 20s, a Type C member. I told the club during my interview that I’m married, and I assume the club has probably informed the men through their comments or other notes as well. I normally wear my wedding ring, but when I’m seeing someone, I sometimes take it off depending on how I feel. However, the other day I met a man I’ve been on several dates with and happened to leave it on. I’m not sure whether he noticed, but he didn’t react. If the woman you were meeting was wearing a wedding ring, would it bother you? I imagine people have all kinds of opinions—some might not care because it’s a transactional relationship, while others might want her to take it off because they like her reasonably well and want to enjoy the feeling of romance. I’d appreciate your honest opinion on how you would feel.

Answer 1

I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ Either is fine with me.

Answer 2

It’s Joe here. I’m sure everything that needed to be said has already been covered, but Mac mentioned me by name, so I couldn’t resist chiming in. Just as Mac suspected, I’d be absolutely thrilled. I’d even wear a ring—which I normally never do—for the date. My imagination would run wild, and I’d feel like it had practically already happened, so I could simply enjoy the conversation and drinks that much more. If anything, we could even wrap things up early. Sorry for being such an idiot. Generally speaking, I don’t think wearing a ring leads to anything good.

Answer 3

I’m a male member, BB7. Maybe because I’m married, but I don’t really pay attention to whether my partner is wearing a ring. If I were single, it might bother me a little, but as long as she genuinely enjoys the date itself, I probably wouldn’t worry about it much.

Answer 4

I’m Basil, a male member. Personally, I generally don’t date married women, so if she showed up wearing a wedding ring, I’d probably make it a one-time meeting. If I were seeing someone knowing she was married, the ring might add a little more of a forbidden thrill and make things more exciting. But I don’t want to take on the risk, so I’ve never tried it.

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