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Oct 11, 2019 19:17
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I don’t have any particular priorities, and I thought it might be a nuisance to specify the time too precisely, so I select “I won’t specify a date and time; I’ll accommodate the woman’s schedule,” and then list several dates and times when I’m available when submitting my request.
However, based on an answer from a staff member in this Q&A box, it seems that I’m being viewed as a member who says he’ll accommodate the woman while actually specifying dates and times, and therefore classified as:
- Someone whose Japanese is strange—in other words, someone with poor Japanese ability
- A liar
Apparently, this wasn’t an official answer from the club, but at the very least, I assume that the staff member who gave that answer, as well as any staff who share the same view, see me that way.
I’ve been doing things this way since I first joined, and I’d never received a warning, so I thought it was fine. That’s why this has come as a real shock. I don’t think the number of offers I’ve made is particularly small, so my reputation may already have completely hit rock bottom.
I’ve been a member for less than a year, so I’d really appreciate hearing how more experienced members handle this. Thank you.
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> After checking “I won’t set a date and will work around the woman’s schedule,”
> I submitted several dates that worked for me.
Wouldn’t it be fine to say something like, “I’ll do my best to accommodate you even outside those dates”?
If the schedules still don’t line up after listing up to five preferred dates, the staff would probably find it easier to ask the woman, “When are you available?”
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I’m a male member in Seattle.
If you can provide multiple dates, you should definitely list up to five preferred dates.
From the perspective of the staff and the woman you’re meeting, I think that will help things move along more quickly.