I’m a male member.

I’m a BB7 male member. Of the Type B women I’ve met, I’ve parted ways with about half after just the first dinner and didn’t invite them on a second date. Of course, I didn’t invite them to an adult relationship either. Looking only at the women I went on dates with after the second meeting, about 70% of the Type Bs ended up having an adult relationship with me. None of them continued with dinner only for three or more meetings. This is just my personal impression, but compared with Type C, Type B women are, in the best sense, more inexperienced—or, putting it less favorably, I sometimes find them “too much work.” So there were quite a few I decided not to see a second time. Of course, if a woman stands out in terms of looks, conversation, personality, or how generous (well-paying) her allowance is, I think the chances of things working out are high. But more than that, I feel Type B is better suited to men who want to take their time getting close, aren’t in a hurry, and don’t mind having dinner only several times in a row. My favorite woman of all was actually a Type B. We clicked right away, so things naturally progressed from the very first day. After that, we continued to have a very enjoyable relationship. The other day, I met a Type B for the second time, but I felt that no matter what, our chemistry was only at a friendship level. As a matter of courtesy, I invited her to take things further, but she turned me down（笑）. I’m an impulsive and impatient person, so I feel Type B probably isn’t a good fit for me.

I’m a male member from Seattle. I’ve made B-type offers to six women, and things are going smoothly with two of them. We started an adult relationship (intimate) from the second meeting. With two others, things ended after just one dinner-only (no intimacy) date. The remaining two are recent, so we’ve only met once in between and still have more of a friends-like vibe. I don’t have time to add any more, so I’m taking things slowly. Since many of them don’t have any offers besides mine, the allowance is kept to a minimum. With B-type arrangements, I’m not looking for a mistress-style relationship from the outset—I’m earnestly trying to win them over as girlfriends. I guess I’m similar to the “puzzled man in his 60s.” On the first day, we hardly ever talk about becoming mistresses. When I’m in a hurry, I make C- or D-type offers.

I’m a confused man in my 60s. It’s been over two and a half years since I joined, and most of the women I’ve sent offers to have been Type B. I’d say about 80% of those relationships have progressed. The one thing the women I’ve entered into relationships with have had in common is saying, “You’re different from the men I’ve met before—you’re kind…” What does “kind” mean? I’ve never been especially conscious of it myself, but I feel uncomfortable with terms like “Type B challenger,” which seem to look down on Type B women somewhat. I’ve heard that, surprisingly, many men aren’t able to properly listen to what women have to say—looking them in the eye, nodding, and smiling. I also often hear about men who start touching them as soon as they see an opening. Even when I don’t ask, many women volunteer stories about what the men they’ve met before were like. When I ask, “Why are you telling me this?” they say, “There’s no one else I can complain to about the dating club. I wanted someone to listen. I’m glad you were someone I could talk to today!” It may sound obvious, but I don’t think it’s simply a matter of offering a more generous allowance. What matters is having an attitude of properly respecting women as women… Though this applies to more than just Type B, of course. Haha. P.S. Mac, thank you. I’m honored. I don’t bring up anything of that sort on the first day at all. Of course, we discuss the terms, but I keep it casual. My policy with Type B women is not to touch them even once on the first day. However, the other day, she asked to shake hands when we were saying goodbye, so my policy fell apart… (^◇^;) In her thank-you message afterward, she said, “Next time, I’d definitely like to have an adult relationship…” So I suppose that usually means by the second meeting…? Also, with the Type A woman I’m currently seeing, I take her on dates where she can gain various experiences. Of course, I haven’t touched her either. I wonder if it’ll be a few years from now with her… Haha. I’d like to meet you too, Mac! I feel like there’s a lot I could learn from you.