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Sep 18, 2019 10:29
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Or have you ever felt that such measures were necessary?
I may be becoming addicted to dating.
I can’t stay away from multiple club websites all day.
Sometimes I make offers to several women in a single day.
I’ll go on a date during the day, then meet another girl that night...
Do I really need it that much?
Probably not.
But I can’t stop.
I used to be hooked on cabaret clubs.
I guess I have an addictive personality.
The trouble is, I never run out of money, either.
If they ever opened a casino in Yokohama, I’d probably spend every day there with a different beautiful woman.
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I’m Lula, a male member of UC and a member of the new salon.
I’ve had a similar experience myself. At my peak, I once met three women in a single day. I met two ongoing partners in Tokyo—one from the morning until early afternoon, and another from early afternoon until evening—and then had a new first meeting arranged for me in Kobe afterward(笑). Since all of them involved an adult relationship (intimate), I remember thinking I was pretty young myself...
If money isn’t an issue, I don’t think you necessarily need to force yourself to stop.
That said, if you personally feel, “I’d like to do something about this,” you might try dating with the goal of choosing one woman from those you’re currently seeing—or someone new you meet over the next month—to become an ongoing monthly arrangement partner you see three or four times a month.
In my experience, there’s a noticeable difference in how you view a date when your attitude is “Let’s just enjoy today” versus “Maybe I could develop a deeper relationship with this woman and see her every week on an ongoing basis.”
I hope you continue to meet wonderful partners.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member from Seattle.
As long as you don’t run out of money and it doesn’t interfere with your daily life, I don’t see a problem with it. I think it’s admirable that you’re contributing to Japan’s economy.
That said, you shouldn’t jeopardize your health. Going for a long spa treatment, for example, might be a good way to pass the time while also being beneficial for your health.