Please share any stories about dates with female members that made you think, “I really didn’t enjoy that.”

This is Saito♪, a column writer. There was a beautiful woman I knew who was a little kinky, and things once became kind of a threesome. When she tried to French-kiss me with the same mouth she’d just used to lick another man’s a**, I instinctively pushed her away. LOL

I’m Rula, a UC male member and a member of the new salon. She was a woman with some American heritage. We had an enjoyable dinner, and she agreed to go to a hotel afterward. Before we went, we also agreed on an allowance of ¥〇〇. Once we got to the hotel, I handed her the ¥〇〇 upfront. “Thank you,” she said, then went to the bathroom humming to herself. I assume she was brushing her teeth. Then she said, “I’m just not in the mood to be intimate for ¥〇〇 today, so I’m going to head home,” and left. I thought, “Wait, so I just paid ¥〇〇 for dinner only? Isn’t that basically fraud?” Still, I decided to take it as a learning experience and made my peace with it. Before or since then, I’ve never had a date that went worse than that one...

I’m Seattle, a male member. That’s awful. I really hope you’ll mention it in your feedback and in the introduction. It would save others time and allow them to make offers to other women. I’ve only met five women so far, but thankfully none of them were terrible.

I’m a BB7 male member in my late 40s. - A Gold college student who never said anything on her own. She called herself a good listener, but all she ever said was “Yes,” “I see,” and “Oh, really?” Said goodbye after the first dinner only. (No longer active) - A Standard part-timer who ordered only her favorite foods at an izakaya and devoured them all by herself. Said goodbye after the first dinner only. (No longer active) - A Platinum college student who, after turning down an adult relationship (intimate), begged me to buy her things because she’d be okay with it next time. Said goodbye after the second dinner only. (Still active) - A G-cup Black office worker who didn’t even remember my name, asked me nothing, and acted as though she had absolutely no interest in me. She made me feel intensely like I was just one of the many men who had made her an offer. Said goodbye after the first meeting with intimacy. (Still active)