I was shocked by the questions about allowances. If you’ve never paid more than 50, including transportation, you should be ashamed of yourself. Are you really that financially strapped?
Since you’re all supposed to be wealthy, shouldn’t you have at least 500,000 yen a month in disposable income?
I’ve also heard that a woman I was interested in had accepted 50 from another man, and it made me furious.
I do believe that “everyone is different” and “as long as both parties are satisfied, that’s what matters.” Still, these men have money, and the women are allowing them something irreplaceable, so I think they should show more sincerity.
Are the people answering here just claiming to be wealthy? Aren’t they being ridiculously cheap?
I’m sure the women who settle for 50 want more but can’t bring themselves to ask, and think, “At least I’m earning more than I would at a part-time job, so I guess it’s better...” They’re probably reluctantly letting us creepy old men have our way with them.
They say rich people are stingy, and it really is true. Aren’t they embarrassed to answer so high-handedly?
This is Joe, a columnist.
There are already plenty of answers, but I’d like to add my two cents.
I think it’s wonderful that you value the woman you’re seeing and pay her an amount that you feel is fair and satisfying. At the same time, relationships through an upscale dating club are highly individual, so they can’t always be measured simply by the amount of money involved. In my limited experience, I’ve met women who said, “If you give me this much, it’ll ruin both of us, you and me, Joe!” They may be exceptional, but people like that do exist.
Also, “Shame on you!” is really not appropriate. It might be fine when you’re loudly venting with friends at a bar in Shimbashi, but even though this is a private, limited space, it’s still somewhere that unspecified people can see. I think we should be mindful of our wording.
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I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
To begin with, I wouldn’t make an offer to a woman asking for “5” or something like that...
I’m looking for a woman I find valuable enough to want to meet even if it means paying a lot.
There are thousands of women, after all. That doesn’t mean they’re all like that, and it’s perfectly fine for there to be all kinds of people. I don’t think we should make sweeping assumptions.
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I’m Rura, a male member of UC and the new salon.
Isn’t it rather immature to apply a one-sided view to everyone?
The question includes phrases such as:
“Settling for 50,000 yen”
“Being satisfied with 50,000 yen”
“Reluctantly letting creepy old men like us have their way with them”
I’m sure some women do feel that way, but that doesn’t apply to everyone.
Aren’t there also many women who think, “He’s such a wonderful man that I wouldn’t really need the money, but I’m happy to have his support for my dreams”?
Besides, women don’t have to reluctantly be intimate with creepy old men—they can simply refuse. That’s what a dating club is for, isn’t it?
I can only hope that more women will be able to feel happy thinking, “I get to enjoy talking with a wonderful man, have a delicious meal, and be intimate with him as well.”
How much money someone gives is certainly an easy-to-understand sign of sincerity, but it isn’t everything.
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