Before joining a dating club, I assumed most members would be men in their 40s or older, with only a small number in their late 30s.

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After being a member for about a year, I’ve received offers from various men, but the ones who made the biggest impression on me were those in their early 30s. Several of them were company presidents or doctors who had opened their own practices, and they seemed to have had plenty of experience dating women. They were generally good-looking, and some had even worked in entertainment before, so they seemed like the kind of men who would be very popular. From what they told me, they had no trouble meeting women at all, which made me wonder why they were using the club. Is it because they’re in positions as company leaders, perhaps? Also, roughly what percentage of male members are under 35?

Answer 1

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I joined a dating club in my 30s. Haha. The more a man seems to have no trouble meeting women in his personal life, the more intensely cautious he may be. You don’t even have to give your real name, and I think it comes down to the risk of being recognized. (If the other person seems like a good one, though, please consider it one of the perks of being in your 30s that you might easily reveal your identity.) When it comes to dating, I feel that the more famous you are, the more you stand to lose.

Answer 2

Male member, Seattle. I’m not in my 30s, but it’s a huge relief not having to think about marriage. If things get too serious, the risk of getting involved in an affair goes up, too.

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