Are women registered as B2 generally offered higher allowances?
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I’m registered as type C, and I often move on to an adult relationship (intimate) that same day. I usually leave the allowance up to him and negotiate somewhere between 70,000 and 110,000 yen.
I’m satisfied with 100,000 yen, but after I introduced a friend and she registered as B2, it sounds like she’s being offered 150,000 yen per meeting. It’s starting to make me lose confidence.
We’re both Platinum-ranked, but could it be because she’s a college student? To be honest, my friend is extremely cute.
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When it comes to the allowance, I think it has more to do with the man’s sense of money than with the woman’s looks alone. It may simply depend on the timing of the meeting, so please don’t be pessimistic. In my case, I once tried to show off and made an overly generous offer, but the woman told me, “I’d like you to keep seeing me, so please don’t overextend yourself.”
Male members tend to push themselves too hard, so I’d really appreciate it if female members could read the situation and make suggestions that allow things to continue comfortably for both sides. Sorry for adding my personal opinion.
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I don’t think you need to lose confidence. The fact that you’re being offered that much allowance is impressive in itself. If your friend’s story isn’t exaggerated and is really true, that’s impressive too—but with so many people who receive no offers at all, both of you are doing great.
Speaking for myself, I don’t change the allowance based on whether someone is a Type B or Type C. The same goes for Platinum versus Standard. Just something to keep in mind.
They’re called classes rather than ranks, but while the man is probably the one who told you she was Platinum, there’s no shortage of chatty older men who can’t even follow the simplest rules. I’ve met over 100 men, and I’ve never understood why the conversation would even get to the point of telling the other person something like that. Maybe they just can’t keep the conversation going.
That’s all.
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Basically, I go along with what the woman wants. Her class or status doesn’t matter.
After meeting someone once, I see her again about 30% of the time. The higher the amount, the harder it is to continue seeing each other.
I know that sounds obvious, but I’m honestly more than surprised—and a little exasperated—by how many women don’t understand this basic point.
That’s why I’m truly nothing but grateful to the women who continue seeing me.
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Much like what Make-Otoko is saying, I feel that high allowances are often a one-time thing.
For example, there are probably men who would pay 1 million yen if it meant they could be with a famous Nogizaka idol. But that’s because they see it as a one-time opportunity. In this world, there’s no limit to how high you can aim.
Rather than focusing on slight differences in cuteness, what matters is how generous a man you can find.
Incidentally, the women other women describe as “cute” often aren’t actually all that cute.
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The amount doesn’t change based on the dating type. It changes depending on the woman’s looks—and how much fun she is to be around.
Offering 15 per meeting is something papas use when they just want to meet someone once and be intimate. Since negotiating is a hassle, they offer an amount that’s almost impossible to turn down, with the goal of being intimate once and that’s it. I’m that type of papa. I only offer 10 or more per meeting to women who plan to end things after being intimate once.
In the end, what matters is how much you can earn in total over one year—or rather, over three or five years—by keeping the arrangement going. So I don’t think it’s wise to obsess over the amount per meeting. That said, I doubt saying this will really get through to the person who asked the question.
There was a popular college student at the black level whom I went out to dinner with several times. I offered her a monthly arrangement of 30 for three meetings a month.
In the end, she said, “I’d rather have 15 per meeting instead of a monthly arrangement. Meeting once or twice a month is enough.” I thought I might be intimate with her once, but it started to feel like too much trouble, so I ended things before that happened.
I honestly think her negotiation with me was such a waste. Most likely, another papa had offered her 15 per meeting, and she figured that if she entered a monthly arrangement with me, it would work out to only 10 per adult relationship, so she asked me for 15 per meeting instead.
Maybe she wanted to end things with me—I won’t deny that possibility. But with a monthly arrangement of 30, she would have had 360 a year and probably could have finally gotten her own place. I don’t know whether she’s regretting it now, but what you should be thinking about is the yearly total and how many years the arrangement will continue. The amount per meeting is honestly meaningless.
It was disappointing because she was the first woman in a long time who made me think I might want a monthly arrangement again. Still, I find myself wondering why I feel strangely refreshed by the whole thing.
Anyway, I made offers to two more women today: one at the black level and one at the gold level. I’m planning to offer the black-level woman 10 per meeting and the gold-level woman 6. There are also two more women on Patolo who are okay with 6 per meeting. But I doubt any of them will continue long-term. The top women in my existing monthly arrangements are simply too strong, so it’s hard to compete. Even so, I keep making offers in hopes of a once-in-a-lifetime encounter.
P.S. Numachan, thank you for sharing such a wonderful story. I can’t believe women like that actually exist...
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I don’t have a set allowance based on whether I’m a C or a B2.
From what I’ve heard, some women register as B2 simply because it makes it easier to turn down adult relationships. Besides, once you’re on your second or third date, B2 and C are logically the same anyway.
I think the answer is already implied in your question: your friend and you differ in appearance, personality, and the things you talk about, so naturally the amounts will be different.
Your friend is probably exaggerating. It’s better not to take people’s boasting at face value. Competing over who can show off more is a waste of life.
And when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) allowances, people won’t necessarily tell you that a higher amount is impressive. They’ll ask, “Are you okay doing papa-katsu?” If the amount is high, they’ll probably worry even more and wonder what you’re being made to do.
They’ll only speculate about why the allowance is so high—whether you’re being pressured into something extreme or deceiving a man through romance.
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I don’t think the allowance usually changes much depending on whether you choose B2 or C.
My impression is that women who choose C want to be intimate without too much hassle, while men who choose B2 are looking for someone who isn’t willing to be intimate with just anyone, but would do so only with them—though that’s probably a male fantasy.
In that case, in addition to the man’s personality and character, the woman may also decide whether to agree based on the allowance. So for men who have plenty of money to spare, more of them may think it’s better to offer 150, even if it means not being filtered out at that stage.
This is only a matter of probability, but looking at it that way, I feel that choosing B2 may give you a higher chance of meeting a man who offers a generous allowance.
That said, as I mentioned at the beginning, I don’t often hear that the allowance changes depending on the dating type, so this is only speaking in terms of possibility.
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Everyone’s different, but in my case, a woman’s dating type has no effect at all on the amount of her allowance. Whether she’s Type A or Type D, it’s the same.
When I was in my twenties, I sometimes got hung up on hostesses who wouldn’t go all the way, but I’m more mature now. These days, I just move on quickly and see someone else.
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After being with the club for a long time, you really lose your sense of perspective. Putting myself aside, there are hardly any Platinum girls I’d even consider cute.
And Platinum college students? That just makes it even more intimidating.
I miss how I felt when I was new to this.
These days, Gold women are more likely to give me that occasional heart-stopping feeling.
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Why not try switching to B2?
If you’re cute and have a certain level of looks, I feel like after that, it mostly comes down to luck in getting offers.
If you don’t want to, just say, “I don’t date for less than ¥100,000,” and you might be able to stay mentally healthier. I don’t know, though.
I don’t think it’s something you should do if it means putting yourself through unpleasant experiences.
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