This pattern is interesting, so I hope some of the other female members will follow suit. I’m also open to reverse offers. My answers may be blunt, but I’m extremely kind to anyone I make an offer to.
> The main photo is unbelievably awful.
I agree. It’s practically malicious—or at least feels like harassment. The staff said they “did their best,” but I honestly wonder what exactly they did their best at.
With the right presentation, you have the potential to attract many more offers. What a waste.
By the way, I think you’d be better off using your private photos and trying SugarDaddy or a similar site. They’re slightly older photos from when you were slimmer, but they’re not misleading. Apparently, SugarDaddy has recently seen a huge increase in women in their 30s and 40s who keep their faces hidden, while younger women have been moving to PJ platforms.
If you’re only earning 5,000 or 10,000 yen in transportation money for B1 meetings, there isn’t much difference between Uniba and SugarDaddy. And if all you want is to talk with people and men remotely and enjoy the feeling of going on dates, you’d definitely be better off there.
Anyway, try it once after dealing with three breast-obsessed guys and someone with an inferiority complex about their education. Also, I don’t think you should mention your academic background in your profile. Just highlight your bust size. Bring up your education only after you’ve gotten a sense of the other person. Otherwise, someone might smugly tell you, “I don’t have an impressive academic background, but I’ve succeeded in society,” and leave you feeling uncomfortable.
I think it’s a good sign that more serious questions are being posted.
It may also mean that the silly questions that are of no help to anyone reading them are now being hidden.
Recently, I made offers to women of both the A type and B1 type. On the first day with the B1 type, we were able to talk about all kinds of things, including her views on adult relationships (intimate). I found myself agreeing with her on many points, and also learned that B1 types can be very different from B2 and C types.
I had made the offer after reading that her profile leaned toward A, so her views on adult relationships were close to my own ideal. We also agreed that we would want things to develop only after building trust. We didn’t go to a hotel on the first day, but we both felt increasingly fond of each other, naturally shared a passionate hug, and went our separate ways.
As I listened to her, I strongly related to her feeling that she couldn’t consider an adult relationship to be something done in exchange for an allowance. Personally, I dislike the idea of a man giving an allowance in order to have an adult relationship, so she was an extremely ideal B1 type for me—we even understood each other in that neither of us had ever discussed allowances with the women we were seeing.
If you’re also a B1 type, I think the best thing would be for you to date a man who shares those views.
Apparently, there aren’t many offers made to B1 types, but that may mean the men are more selectively matched and there are fewer mismatches.
The B1 woman I recently made an offer to had received the same number of offers as you, so I don’t think you need to rush.
Also, just because weight is self-reported doesn’t make it okay to lie about it. The number listed suggests an ideally slim figure from a man’s perspective, but the gap between it and the photos is far too large.
To the staff:
The top photo is far too unflattering. I strongly suggest changing it to the second photo, or something similar, as soon as possible.
I think the low number of favorites is largely because men are passing her by after seeing the top photo.
Update:
I’ll also explain how men who make offers to B1 types feel.
Just as some women dislike having an adult relationship for the sake of receiving an allowance, many men aren’t particularly happy about entering an adult relationship simply because they’re paying an allowance.
Ideally, the relationship would naturally progress into an adult relationship because they’ve reached the point where they both want to take that step.
You may wonder what the difference is, but…
From a man’s perspective, rather than being asked by a woman, “How much would the allowance be…?”
And from a woman’s perspective, rather than being told by a man, “I’ll give you this much money, so…”
There are men and women who don’t want money to come into the picture first.
Well, how should I put it?
Perhaps it’s somewhat similar to marriage. Married couples are involved with money even more than people in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but money doesn’t come into play between the time they start dating and the time they get married.
Just as married couples can stay together for life because money wasn’t part of the equation at the beginning—because they never made financial arrangements beforehand—I think some club relationships can also develop into lifelong relationships in a similar way. In fact, that’s what has happened in some cases.
