Tips Jan 1, 2026 11:50

I’m thinking about signing up.

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Every year, I gain about 5 kg over the New Year holidays, but I lose it again within about a month. Would it be better to register after I’ve lost the weight? I’d like to sign up as soon as possible, but I’m unsure whether I should get in shape first.
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> Is it better to register once my weight is back to normal? Yes, it would be better to wait until your weight is back to normal. The reason is simple: they take your photo during the interview. They often decide whether to view your full profile based on that photo, so if you want men to look at your profile details, it’s best to have the most flattering photo possible. After viewing your full profile, they decide whether to make an offer. How much gaining 5 kg affects your photo will vary from person to person, but I think you’ll have fewer regrets if you wait until you can take the best-looking photo possible. So I’d recommend going to the interview when you’re at your ideal body shape—more or less your ideal weight. Also, if you can lose about 5 kg and return to your usual weight within a month, you might consider taking another month to lose 5 kg more than usual before going to the interview. That could make your waist look especially slim and give the impression that women as slender as you are are rare, which might increase your chances of receiving more offers.
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Happy New Year! As of yesterday, my “patron” status expired too, and I’m just an ordinary old geezer now—Date◎Yume here. Well, either way is fine. There’s no need to rush too much…
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You can’t judge by weight alone. What’s your “spec”? Height minus 110 = weight, within ±5 kg. What number does that give you? When deciding whether to make an offer, Fuu looks at whether your weight falls within that height-minus-110 ±5 kg range, along with your waistline in your profile photos lol. Women often want to be thinner than men actually prefer, so even if the number is a little higher, many men are perfectly fine with it. Just something to keep in mind. If you’re above the spec, I think it’s best to lose weight first and come back once you’re within the height-minus-110 range. Though, speaking as someone who’s really into strength training lol: If you lose weight without building muscle, your chest may get smaller and you’ll just end up looking soft and skinny. So I’d be happy if you could lose weight in a healthy way.
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On New Year’s Day, my daughter talked me into buying her a game and then made me play with her until morning, so I’m seriously sleep-deprived… I assume your weight is self-reported, so you should be fine as long as you give your usual weight. Also, I think women who are about 5 kg heavier than their stated weight are often closer to men’s ideal body type. The slimmer the woman, the more this tends to be true.
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