Tips Dec 26, 2025 07:54

There’s a man who keeps inviting me out just for dinner even though I’m listed as Type C. Is it okay to report him to the club? Why doesn’t he make an offer to Type A women?

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I wish men would follow the rules: B1: after a few meetings B2: definitely from the second meeting C: from the first meeting I feel like far too many men who have been active with Universe for years still can’t follow the rules, and I don’t even understand the point of having these types. Everyone interprets them completely differently. Wouldn’t it be better to stop dividing people into types except for A and B1? It’s really annoying. Some people treat Type C like B2, having dinner only the first time and then inviting you from the second meeting onward. Why can’t they follow the rules? If you’re Type C, then you have to either decline or go through with it from the first meeting—otherwise, isn’t that against the rules?
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アンディ
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Sorry. I sometimes make an offer to a Type C woman, meet for tea for about 40 minutes, and then part ways. From the second meeting onward, we may either start seeing each other or gradually drift apart. However, when making the offer, I have the club tell her in advance that we’ll part ways within an hour. She’s free to decline the offer if she’s not comfortable with that. Just because she’s Type C doesn’t mean things will automatically move forward. I’d rather not go to a hotel reluctantly, and it’s also a risk to set aside two hours for someone I may not even like after the first meeting, so that’s how I handle it. If you receive an offer in the future that involves parting ways after the first meeting, perhaps you should simply decline it.
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
A dating type only indicates how proactive the woman is. Just because she’s type C doesn’t mean there’s a rule that you have to be intimate every time. That said, even though it indicates her level of initiative, if a woman is listed as A, B1, or B2, it’s against the rules for the man to invite her to a hotel on the very first meeting. Universe Club is simply arranging introductions between men and women. For that reason, the club’s policy is that the first meeting arranged through the club should begin with a meal. Beyond that, you want to go to a hotel every time, while the man only wants to enjoy dinner. Since your expectations don’t align, you should look at it as an issue between the two of you, separate from the club. The usual course would be to part ways because you want different things. To begin with, have you actually told him that you want to go to a hotel, rather than just have dinner? There is also a very small possibility that he doesn’t know whether it’s okay to invite you, or that he finds you intimidating because your expression looks angry. I think it’s best to clearly communicate what you want. If your wishes don’t match, simply go your separate ways. > Since I’m type C, it would be against the rules unless I either turn him down or go through with it, right? Hmm? This seems to have gotten a little confusing. Did you invite him, and he didn’t turn you down? If he didn’t refuse, though, it seems like you would have gone to a hotel, so I find that contradictory. Did you invite him, but he declined and said he only wanted dinner? In that case, you can simply decide not to see each other again. He was the one who turned you down, after all.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Oh, nice—someone who hasn’t looked beyond their own perspective in a while and insists on imposing their opinions on others. Well, people are all different. If the questioner thinks that way and just wants to have an adult relationship (intimate) in exchange for the money, then they might as well work in the sex industry. The men are going there for that purpose too, and since you can make more by seeing more people, it’s the quickest way. A papa (a male supporter) isn’t going to get excited by “just doing it”—it’s gross, but honestly, that’s the truth. Women who can’t understand that probably aren’t suited for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or rather, they won’t have a good experience and won’t be able to earn much. It’s a shame. They should understand their partner and learn how to charm them and keep them wrapped around their finger.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Women can be pretty deceptive about their type too, right? A lot of women list themselves as a C cup when they’re really a B. I think it’s quite common for the terms of the arrangement to change depending on who they’re dealing with.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’re going to say that, then having sex with a married person is adultery and wrong, and selling your body for money is prostitution, which goes against society’s rules. You need to follow that standard too. Those are merely guidelines, not rules, which is why Universal isn’t arrested for facilitating prostitution.
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