I can’t reach ejaculation during the second round.

What’s expected is— I envy you. With Fuu, the basic pattern is going for a second round. I feel like I could probably manage a little more, but it’s rare to be allowed to go more than twice. Some things you could try are abstaining from masturbation for a few days before meeting, varying the location, technique, position, and angle, or getting excited with sexy lingerie or cosplay. With Fuu, each woman has certain positions and angles that feel best for her, so if you find that spot and angle, you can usually finish. It’s true that sometimes it’s harder to finish a second time. When that happens, I think it’s best to tell yourself it’s okay if you don’t, avoid forcing it, and definitely don’t get too rough and cause her pain—you won’t get another meeting. It’s better to stop without pushing yourself and keep things open for next time.

If your partner is satisfied, that’s a perfect score. It’s best to think of the second time as just a bonus—that makes it easier to climax. Take your time and stay relaxed. Your mental state has a major effect on whether you can climax.

Yesterday, after finishing inside one of my monthly partners, I had soba with another monthly partner and we parted ways without having sex. I did give her the allowance for an adult relationship, though. I can go for a second round, but I haven’t done it at all lately. It feels good to put my dick in and out, so I could manage a second or even third round, but I just don’t feel motivated to go for round two. Mac is abnormal. Seriously, he’s incredible. He has one of the strongest sex drives in all of Japan. I remember either FUU or Dai being just as sexually vigorous as Mac.

> I’m drenched in sweat and completely exhausted every time. I think it’s because you’re out of shape. You get tired, and by the end, you probably just lose your erection. The solution, I think, is to avoid getting so tired. If you build up your stamina, you should be able to exercise without getting exhausted. Hire a personal trainer—otherwise, you’ll probably stop following through—and work on improving your fitness. Build the cardiovascular endurance to run a full marathon seriously. I feel like that alone would probably solve the problem. That said, if you don’t genuinely want to solve it, you probably won’t be able to devote the time to it, and you may lose motivation halfway through. In that case, it might be better to recognize that you weren’t truly serious—you only thought you were, vaguely.

Wouldn’t it work to delay your first ejaculation—by spending more time on foreplay or using toys, for example—satisfy your partner fully, and then ejaculate just once? I honestly can’t tell whether this person is suffering from premature or delayed ejaculation. I don’t remember ever having a partner ask for a second round. I’ve had partners climax repeatedly and roll their eyes back, though. I was in my early 50s at the time, back when I didn’t even know about dating clubs like these and was still picking up women on my own. I remember ejaculating nine times in one night. The questioner is in his 40s, right? Maybe he just doesn’t have the desire. Can you ejaculate when masturbating? If so, ejaculation is something you can partly improve through autonomic nervous system training. Try recalling the material you use when masturbating, or remember how desperately you wanted to sleep with women when you were a virgin. Rather than relying on medication for everything, it might help to awaken your own desire. If you just lie around being lazy, your testicles will simply undergo disuse atrophy, just like muscles. By the way, today I successfully ejaculated three times with two women—once in the afternoon and twice at night. And I’m in my late 60s. I love the refreshing, happy feeling after ejaculating. Ejaculation is my life. I searched through the posting history for the first time in a while and realized this is the questioner’s fifth post. Reading the questions in order made it easy—and interesting—to see what he’s been up to. In any case, the well will eventually run dry, so it might be good to relax, let go of the pressure, and accept yourself as you are. I’m currently considering getting a vasectomy. I always use a condom, but my partner says the pill doesn’t agree with her, so she takes... 2024/07/06 14:07 Male, 40s, No answer, 64450 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/16929 I’m a 46-year-old man. I have a question for the men here. I know it may seem a little late, but I’m considering getting the HPV vaccine (Gardasil 4-valent) to help prevent oropharyngeal cancer... 2024/05/08 19:02 Male, 40s, No answer, 64450 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/16761 A woman I’ve been seeing for about two years told me, “I came down with trichomoniasis. I went to a super sento a few days ago, so maybe I caught it there...” 2024/02/26 17:33 Male, 40s, No answer, 64450 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/16544 I’ve been in a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) arrangement with the same woman for a year and a half. We get along well and are compatible, so I’d like to continue seeing her if possible... 2023/09/07 21:14 Male, 40s, No answer, 64450 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/15983

Rather than focusing on your own ejaculation, I think you should put some effort into making sure she’s satisfied the first time. You should aim to get her so worked up that she’s sweating from her back and all over her body.

Wouldn’t it be fine to bring your partner to climax during the first round and finish without climaxing yourself? I’ve been doing that since my twenties. (Or is it more accurate to say I split the first round into two parts?)

Let’s change the way you think about it—there’s no need to ejaculate. Once you turn 50, you may not even be able to go for the first round. That’s exactly me, haha. Just embrace it and enjoy other things and the conversation instead. If you force yourselves to keep going for too long, it puts a strain on both of your bodies. Call it a day a little earlier and go grab some dinner.