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Oct 16, 2025 02:24
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Thankfully, on the very day I joined, around 30 people added me to their favorites, and I received offers from several others. However, the names of the people who sent me offers didn’t appear in my list of favorites. Does that mean they sent me offers directly without adding me to their favorites?
I can view the profiles of people who added me to their favorites, but is there any way to view the profiles of people who sent me offers without adding me to their favorites?
Since they took the time to send me an offer, I’d like to look over their profiles if possible, find some common interests, and have a pleasant dinner with plenty to talk about.
Sorry for the long post, but I’d really appreciate it if anyone who knows could let me know when they have a moment.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Since men are the ones who pay and make the offers, the system is tilted in their favor.
Men can choose whether to make their profiles public. Unless they enable that setting, women can’t view their profiles.
Fuu felt that was unfair to women, so I set mine to “only show my profile to people I’ve made an offer to.”
You may be able to ask the club staff what kind of person the papa who made the offer is, and they might tell you whatever they’re allowed to share.
That said, even if you can see his profile, I think the real key is how you feel about each other after meeting.
With that many offers, you’re in a position to choose. There’s always some luck involved, like a gacha, but I think it’s perfectly fine to meet them and narrow down your options from there.
Also, try not to let it get you down if you keep running into strange papas. With that many offers, there are probably some good ones among them. According to the Pareto principle in general statistics, good papas may make up around 20% of the total—at least according to Fuu’s research, haha.
Most importantly, agreeing on the terms at the beginning of the meeting is crucial. Before meeting, make sure you’re prepared to clearly communicate the conditions you absolutely won’t compromise on.
Have a fun papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) life!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If a man has made his profile public, a link to it will be included when he sends you an offer, even if you haven’t added him to your favorites.
If there’s no link, I assume he has chosen to keep his profile private.
That said, Universe has staff arrange the introductions, so you could message the staff something like:
“What kind of person is he? I’d like to have an enjoyable dinner with plenty to talk about, so I’m hoping to find some common interests.”
They’ll probably share whatever information they know about him (though it likely won’t be much).
They might also suggest to him, “Why not make your profile visible to this woman? There’s an option to show it only to women you’ve made an offer to.”
As a result, you may end up being able to view his profile.