I joined Universe Club this June mainly to earn money for tuition, but I recently left.
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I reached my target amount the other day, so I’ve decided to stop going on papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) dates from now on. I also have a separate phone for papa-katsu and use LINE on it, so I’ll be canceling that phone as well.
Before I cancel it, I’d like to let the men I’ve met and might otherwise see again know what’s going on. How should I word the message?
For anyone I met only once and haven’t been in touch with for over two months, I don’t plan to say anything.
Thank you in advance.
Even though you went to the trouble of using a dedicated phone for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think it’s better not to contact your papas (male supporters) when you quit.
If you haven’t shared personal information like your home address or employer’s name, you can probably just avoid making any further plans and block them…
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Deleting your LINE account without saying anything is perfectly fine, but I don’t think any papa (male supporter) would be upset if you simply said, “I’m quitting papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Thank you for everything.”
I’m not sure whether you’d call them monthly arrangements, but I’ve had three women I met regularly eventually graduate from papa-katsu. If there’s a papa who would still like to see you occasionally, it might be worth keeping his contact information.
One of my biggest goals in papa-katsu is to have someone who has graduated reach out again and say, “I’d like to see you.” While you’re still in a papa-katsu relationship, it’s hard to judge for yourself whether you’re truly a good papa. But if someone who has graduated tells you they want to meet again, I feel I’ve earned a passing grade.
I hope you’ve found at least one papa like that.
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I’m quitting now that I’ve achieved my goal. It would make me happy if you said, “Thank you so much—it’s all thanks to you.”
If you ever find yourself short on money, you can always resume with just the best papa you had.
Looks like the column has started up again after a while. I should read it.
https://universe-club.jp/column/
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> How should I tell him?
Maybe something like:
“I’ve decided to quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Thank you for everything.”
That said, I think it’s best to put it in your own words.
Although, if there are any men who want to meet one last time, I feel like it would be okay to see them.
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