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Oct 12, 2025 20:55
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
After seeing someone once, I’ve often had women follow up with me even when I didn’t contact them first.
Just like in a normal relationship, I reply to women I see potential with. If I don’t want to meet someone again, I simply don’t respond or I block them.
Of course, if you don’t make a move, there’s no chance of anything happening. So I think it’s fine to send a follow-up message, even if you’re worried you might get blocked.
I’ve also had plenty of situations where communication stopped and I sent a follow-up message myself.
👨 Male
Universe member
Hmm? It looks like you can’t send follow-up messages anymore.
I think what I called follow-up messages was actually sending several short messages separately.
Sorry, I’m no longer a member of the club, so I’m not entirely sure.
Personally, I don’t see any problem with sending as many messages as needed（笑）.
I’m totally fine with follow-up messages.
Especially in the early stages of a relationship, I think there’s a lot to talk about.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
With Universe, you can’t send follow-up messages.