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Oct 6, 2025 09:40
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I’m curious what he means by wanting to take a little trip with me. From his perspective, I must seem really young…
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I guess it’s because I get bored and want some new excitement.
With Fuu, things usually end when we stay overnight or go on a trip together, lol.
When you’re together for too long, you both start seeing each other’s true colors, lol. It’s complicated.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If it’s just about intimacy, you’ll eventually get bored and break things off, so maybe you want to become closer.
If he’s incredibly rich, why not marry him? If he’s not that wealthy, flatter him just enough and keep the allowance coming.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
This summer, I took an 18-year-old virgin girl on a short trip, and we stayed overnight. Since there was a double bed, we slept right next to each other.
> I’m curious what goes through a papa’s mind when he says he wants to go on a little trip together.
There wasn’t any particular reason. I’m not seriously in love with her or anything. If I had to give a reason, I was simply curious what it would be like to travel with an 18-year-old virgin girl.
> From my papa’s perspective, I must seem really young…
If he’s 32, I don’t think he sees you as a child. He probably just sees you as exactly what you are: a cute younger girl. You’re overthinking it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
There are all kinds of people, so it’s hard to give one definitive answer, but these are the possibilities that come to mind:
① They want to enjoy the fantasy of romance more.
In other words, maybe they’ve only been able to go on dates at a hotel—or just a hotel plus a meal—and now they want to spend more time together and enjoy dates that feel more like being a couple.
② They want to take her somewhere far away as a gesture of appreciation.
I think this may be a case where the man assumes that whatever he finds enjoyable, the woman will enjoy too. Of course, sometimes that’s true, but most of the time it’s more like, “If that’s what he wants…” So I feel that in many cases, it doesn’t actually end up being a reward for the woman.
③ They want to gain more control over her.
By “control,” I mean emotionally, but I think some people do have that kind of feeling.
There are probably other reasons too, but those are the ones that come to mind right away.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m over 60, but even I feel like her boyfriend when I travel with a 19-year-old, so I think it’s perfectly normal for someone who’s 32 to feel that way.
You’ll understand once you’re 32 or 60 yourself, but emotionally, you still feel exactly the same as you did at 19. You just have more life experience.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
A stranger online can’t possibly know someone’s feelings when even you, talking to them face-to-face, don’t understand them.