With Universe Club, do you pay the woman every time you meet after the first meeting?
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Also, if you get along well with her, could it develop into a relationship?
I’m considering using Universe Club, but there’s still a lot I don’t understand.
Yes. Universe Club is for people who want to receive an allowance every time they meet someone. You’ll need to pay Universe Club an introduction fee the first time, but there’s no offer fee from the second meeting onward.
Personally, if your idea of dating doesn’t include an allowance, I’d recommend avoiding it.
The system is explained in detail online, on social media, and YouTube. Rather than asking here, you could apply for an interview with Universe Club, ask them about everything, and, if papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) works for you, register and enjoy it!
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> Does the woman you meet for the first time through Universe Club get paid every time you meet her??
101.76% of the women registered with Universe Club meet us older guys in exchange for financial support.
You say you’re in your thirties, but to them, that makes you a perfectly respectable older guy.
> Also, is it possible to start dating once you become close with a woman??
It is. However, I gave her money.
If you officially start dating, most girls will quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), which would leave them struggling financially, right? So naturally, I give them money.
If you don’t give them money, they’ll have to find some kind of side job eventually. Knowing that and still saying, “If you give her money, it doesn’t count as romance,” means you’ve completely lost the plot.
Though there were also girls who kept doing papa-katsu even after we became boyfriend and girlfriend.
Saying that you can’t be boyfriend and girlfriend if money is involved is just an excuse from an unpopular older guy.
Giving her money even though she’s your girlfriend is what people these days are calling “the other side of papa-katsu.”
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Does the woman you meet for the first time through Universe Club get paid every time you see her?
→ Yes! Since this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), the basic expectation is to give her an allowance each time.
And if you become close with her, could it eventually turn into a relationship?
→ Since most women’s primary motivation is money, you should assume that’s unlikely.
You’re in your 30s, so I’d suggest trying dating apps first. If you still can’t have much luck, then you might consider coming here, where money is what matters.
How much can you afford to spend on papa-katsu?
Between the club’s annual membership fee, the pay-per-meeting offer fee, her allowance, meals, and hotel expenses, it can add up quickly. You need to have some financial breathing room for papa-katsu.
Attractive women are popular, so your rivals will be papas who can offer generous (well-paying) allowances.
This is a world where money talks.
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On the other hand, I also find myself thinking, “You’re young—why not go out there and hunt for more natural prey?”
I’ve had several troublesome experiences where, after getting a girlfriend, she eventually started expecting marriage, so from my late twenties/early thirties onward, I’ve opted for allowance-based arrangements.
I truly believe that “an allowance is a parting payment for each meeting” and “money is a condom for the heart.”
Though I doubt the person asking this question has thought about it that way.
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If you’re a 30-year-old who’s attractive enough that things could naturally develop into dating once you get close, then you should just use an ordinary dating app where allowance isn’t assumed from the start—or even try picking someone up on the street. This is a delusional-level question.
Every now and then, someone in their 30s joins a dating club thinking, “I’m young, so I’ll probably be popular.” But the older male and female members look at them with a rather cold, somewhat condescending eye. It just feels cheap and uncool.
When a man in his 30s is willing to pay a proper allowance, I do think, “Impressive for someone so young.” At the same time, I also find myself thinking, “Since you’re young, why not go out and hunt for your own opportunities?” But everyone’s different.
A little while ago, a young guy who was actively working as a local idol said he wanted to visit a hostess club, so I asked him, “At your level, wouldn’t you have fans—or even someone you picked up—lining up for you?” He replied, “That’s true, but whenever I do that, they all end up getting serious about me afterward, so I can’t bring myself to make a move.”
If that’s the kind of feeling behind it, then dating through a club in your 30s is fine too. “The allowance is a pay-per-meeting severance fee. Money is a condom for the heart.”
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The setting fee is paid to the club the first time.
Universe Club’s involvement is limited to the initial dinner. In that case, you give the woman ¥10,000 for transportation expenses.
For any relationship after that, including meetings from the second time onward, please discuss and decide the terms together.
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> Do you pay every time you meet??
Do you mean paying the company each time, like with a girlfriend-for-hire service?
When important details are left out, it becomes difficult to understand what the question itself means.
> Is it possible to become romantically involved with a woman after getting to know her??
I’m not sure what kind of relationship you mean by “romantically involved.”
Generally, these services are for finding someone to date, but I get the feeling that the kind of relationship you have in mind may be different.
> There’s still so much I don’t understand.
You can apply for an initial interview and ask all kinds of questions there. Just because it’s an enrollment interview doesn’t mean you’re required to join.
You’re free to simply hear what they have to say and leave without joining if it doesn’t match what you had in mind.
If you have questions, I think the best thing to do is ask them during the interview.
If you’re not comfortable expressing yourself in writing, it may be better to ask them directly in person.
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