I live outside a major city and recently re-registered with Universe, but time has passed without receiving any offers. I’ve read through various past questions, and I assume it’s because I’m not particularly young or attractive, so I’ve also started going to the gym.
I’ve also wondered whether there are simply fewer active papas in my area, or whether they already have girls they’re seeing regularly.
I understand that looks are the most important factor when male members make offers, but are there any other things you pay attention to?
I’d like to find a monthly papa arrangement as soon as possible.
Thank you in advance for your answers.
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If you’re not chosen based on your looks first, it might be pretty difficult.
Another option would be to register on Patro and lower your desired allowance.
You might have a chance if you work out and improve your figure. If you post swimsuit or lingerie photos on your profile, you’d probably get offers from a certain number of seriously horny papas.
Fuu: I basically make offers to ordinary college students or office workers and turn them into monthly arrangements. But when I occasionally get bored, I sometimes make offers out of curiosity to women who look innocent but have sexy comments in their profiles.
Examples of profiles from women with erotic comments whom I’ve made offers to include:
“I like adult relationships and model anonymously, posting swimsuit photos and the like on social media.”
“I sometimes go to lifestyle clubs.”
“I like being taken from behind in a dark room.”
They don’t tend to last long as monthly arrangements, but sometimes I make offers purely out of curiosity.
Among these women I’ve offered to because of their erotic profiles, there have been two who later appeared in amateur adult content on FC2.
The women who tend to last as monthly partners are generally cheerful, considerate, good-natured, and a little sexy.
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I’m active every month, even outside the major cities.
That’s great. Sending a message along with your like definitely leaves a good impression. I’ve actually made an offer to someone because of that.
Also, on Patro, you can message people directly, so why not try reaching out to someone in the same area and see what happens?
Hope this helps.
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It also depends on what part of the country you’re in.
Sapporo, Sendai, Hiroshima, and Fukuoka should still be relatively promising, but if you’re in a more remote area, it may be better to expect it to take some time.
There’s no guarantee you’ll get a response, but you may simply be getting overlooked, so why not have the woman take the initiative by sending a nice message through the app or via PATOLO?
You could also actively consider having your photos retaken once six months have passed.
*This is just my personal experience, but I don’t reply to template messages.*
For example:
“Hi, I came across your profile and was interested, so I wanted to reach out.
I’d love to meet you.”
Since they don’t say what specifically caught their attention in your profile, anyone could use the same message.
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> Are there any other qualities I should focus on?
Quite a few men surprisingly enjoy golf, so being able to play golf may increase your chances of receiving offers. You may still get offers even if you’ve only been to the driving range and never played a full course, but generally speaking, women with experience playing on an actual course tend to be preferred.
However, there’s also a good chance that golf dates will be added to your dates. If you claim to like golf when you actually don’t, the dates may become a burden, so it’s probably best not to mention it unless you’re genuinely interested in or enjoy it.
Also, you’ve probably received notifications from men who added you to their favorites. It might be a good idea to send those men a message saying something like, “You seem wonderful.”
The key is to send a personalized message tailored to each person rather than a standard template.
Men may think, “Since she messaged me, maybe she’d be open to this or that as well?” I think it’s good to subtly appeal to that side of things, but being too obvious probably isn’t ideal, so try giving it some thought.
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When it comes to what I value besides looks, I’d say motivation.
I can sense that someone is serious when they keep their schedule calendar properly updated.
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There’s a section where women can write their own comments. Interesting comments tend to attract attention, so take the time to come up with something engaging.
It’s also important to show that you’re motivated.
And since people may search by keyword when they share your hobbies, try including a variety of interests.
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