What do you do when she asks for a much higher allowance than you expected?
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Until now, I’ve always ended the meeting there, but lately I’ve been wondering whether it might be worth agreeing to her requested allowance and enjoying an adult relationship just once.
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There’s a setting fee, after all, so why not give it a try?
If Fuu offers a little more upfront, I’d be willing to try it for now.
Sometimes things go well and we end up continuing as-is. In those cases, I’ll usually continue if they’re okay with a second round; if not, I won’t continue.
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Considering the setting fee, I think it’s better to go through with it—even if the allowance is high—than to part ways without doing anything.
If you still feel it’s too expensive afterward, you can make it a one-time thing. If you think it’s worth it, you can continue. You can always just meet less often.
This year, I met women asking for pay-per-meeting 20 and pay-per-meeting 15.
The woman asking for 20 was fine with the amount for an adult relationship (intimate), but she also asked for 5 separately for transportation, which put me off, so I didn’t invite her again.
I did go through with it with the girl asking for 15. I’m good at helping women squirt without causing discomfort, and she was the type who squirted like a waterfall, so I enjoyed myself enough to feel it was worth the 15.
I’m meeting a woman in a few days who wants at least 10 per meeting, and if her looks are good enough, I’ll probably go through with it.
Incidentally, in the opposite situation from the questioner’s, if a woman asked for only 6 per meeting and I thought, “That’s cheap. She looks like she’s worth around 10,” and went through with it, I still wouldn’t continue seeing her.
Could someone analyze this phenomenon from the other side?
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As for answering your question, I’d end things immediately.
If I knew it wasn’t going to continue, I wouldn’t do it even once if it meant changing the allowance. That said, I think it’s perfectly understandable if you only want to meet once.
Hope this helps.
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I propose a total covering the meal, hotel, and allowance, then negotiate within that range. Since the total also varies depending on how long we’ll be together, I usually find some kind of compromise with the woman.
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Just as a thought experiment, I think the best way to enjoy being with someone like that would be to offer twice the amount she asked for.
“Let’s meet again if you make this enjoyable for me. But if I don’t enjoy myself, we won’t meet again.”
If she’s that focused on the money, wouldn’t she give it her all?
Though, to be honest, I’ve never tried this myself.
The key point is that whether you agree on 30,000, 50,000, or 100,000 yen, the quality of the service you receive for the agreed amount will probably be about the same.
To rephrase my answer: I think the questioner would probably get better service by generously giving that large amount to another girl who agreed to a lower amount.
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What’s the point of asking what other people are doing?
Even if someone asks for a much larger allowance than expected, some people will agree to it, while those who have already decided on their maximum simply won’t.
If respondents said that, in dating clubs, you always have to pay whatever the other person asks for—whether it’s ¥200,000 or ¥1,000,000 per meeting—would you do it?
Whether you agree or not is entirely up to you, so I think you should just do what feels right for you. Women are the same: even if someone offers twice the allowance they asked for, they may still refuse if they feel they can’t be with that person.
That freedom is also what makes it different from the sex industry, in my opinion.
That said, I do wish people would stop with the awkward attempts to negotiate the price down, saying things like, “This is the usual amount, so yours is too high,” or, “Are you really worth that much?”
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When our allowance expectations don’t match, I just tell them it’s unfortunate and we go our separate ways.
I’ve dated people while giving six- or even seven-figure allowances, but it didn’t really make a difference compared with five figures—in fact, those arrangements were sometimes worse. So I no longer plan to offer six figures or more except in very unusual circumstances.
Rather than waste money, I’d much rather give a bonus to a familiar partner with whom my allowance expectations already align.
That said, this is simply what I’ve learned through my own experiences, so I think you should try things for yourself and see what works for you.
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