Regarding stingy papas who try to get a better deal than they would at a sex service

Why don’t you just tell him you’re not comfortable with it? You need to say from the start, “I’ll be leaving after four hours.” Once you agree to it, that becomes the default. Are you really going to keep going for six hours? Also, having a meal with someone you don’t even like while worrying about other people’s eyes sounds exhausting. So if it’s four hours directly in a private room, I can kind of see how that might work… With Fuu, it also depends on confirming the woman’s feelings, but quite a few monthly arrangement partners are happy with something like three hours in a room without a meal. It depends on the woman, though.

A lot of women at these clubs are subjected to ongoing power harassment during four-hour or six-hour full-time arrangements and aren’t allowed to leave. (There are several of them.) Honestly, it’s taking a huge toll on my mental health. Even when I try to refuse repeatedly, I can’t find the courage, so it just continues. I’d be fine with four hours—I just want to be allowed to leave early… At the very least, I wish the power harassment would stop… They say only the person being harassed can truly understand what it’s like… To the person asking about the six-hour arrangement, you must be exhausted.

Since I received a response, I’ll post my reply here. I recently heard that a platinum monthly arrangement with a premium rate had accepted an offer of: “¥30,000 for three hours, two rounds, no condom.” So it does seem that Universe Club has some low-quality papas (male supporters) on its books. Maybe that’s why they made the transportation fee a fixed ¥10,000? I’ve heard men ask for six-hour adult relationships several times in the past, so I think men like that have been around at Universe Club for a long time. I’ve made a ninth appointment with a girl who has already stood me up eight times, but I doubt she’ll show. Another girl canceled at the last minute yesterday. There are plenty of bad men, but the women can be quite something too♡

I’m not sure whether this is an unfinished question or what, but since you’ve posted it three times, I’ll answer based on what you’ve written. Hotel day-use plans seem to have become less common recently. The places that still offer them are often cheaper hotels, such as APA Hotels. Occasionally, upscale hotels have day-use plans too, but I sometimes feel they aren’t worth the price. As for not wanting tea or a meal, perhaps it’s because they wouldn’t enjoy spending time dining with you. In other words, unfortunately, they’ve decided that the only value you offer is spending time together at a hotel. It’s only natural not to choose a particularly nice hotel when that’s the sole purpose of meeting such a woman. Back when I used to visit hotel-based escort services, I found that the quality of the service was often better when I chose a nicer hotel. The going rates for “bathhouses” also vary widely. If you’re at a level where you can manage the more expensive end of that market, why not take the plunge and go there instead? Personally, I believe women’s mental health suffers in the sex industry because they have to deal with an unspecified number of customers. Even if you use papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) like a “bathhouse,” being able to choose your own partners can help prevent the mental strain.