Has anyone discussed in advance what they would do if the woman became pregnant?
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If so, what arrangements did you make?
If not, have you decided what you would do should that situation arise?
I’d appreciate hearing from both male and female respondents.
I always use protection, so we’ve never discussed it beforehand.
If it did happen, I’d suggest a DNA test, just as others have said.
It would be an extremely rare situation, but if the child really were mine, I think I’d ask her to have an abortion.
We’re not in love or having an adult relationship (intimate), so I don’t think there would be any conflict if I suggested that.
In that case, I would cover the cost of the abortion.
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Have you discussed in advance with your housemates or relatives what you would do if a meteorite hit your home?
I think it’s a good idea to discuss pregnancy with your partner, but I’m not sure whether it’s really necessary to have that conversation if you’re using contraception. That said, even before deciding whether to discuss it, I think the mature thing to do is to take proper responsibility—without leaving the burden entirely to the other person and while being considerate of their feelings. That seems only natural to me.
However, there was apparently a pregnant woman selling positive pregnancy test kits a little while ago, so as Mac mentioned, I feel it might be worth having a prenatal paternity DNA test done, just in case. That said, you’d need to be very careful about how you bring it up, since the wrong wording could hurt the other person.
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First, I ask whether she’s on the pill. If she isn’t, I even recommend a clinic and encourage her by saying, “If you want to do this, you should probably take it.”
We haven’t discussed what we’d do if she got pregnant.
Women need to take precautions beforehand, because once they’re pregnant, it’s too late…
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I’m not sure what you’re asking, but since this is an important issue, I’ll share what I know. That said, I’m neither a medical nor legal expert, so some of this may be incorrect.
It seems that Universe girls assume that if they become pregnant and don’t want to give birth, the man will of course pay for the abortion and additional compensation. To the best of my knowledge, if the matter goes to court, the basic rule in cases involving consensual sex is that the costs are split 50/50. If she received an allowance, it may be considered that the risks were included in the arrangement, meaning she might not be able to receive not only compensation, but even the abortion costs. Furthermore, if the woman demands compensation or similar payments, depending on how she goes about it, she could potentially be arrested.
As Mac-san said, even during pregnancy, a DNA test can be conducted with the man’s cooperation. So if he provides a blood sample, he can’t simply claim, “It’s not my child.” However, according to what I know, even then, she may not be able to demand compensation or anything similar.
If she decides to give birth, she can ask the man to legally acknowledge the child and can also claim child support. However, it probably won’t be easy.
Bottom line: Make sure you use proper contraception—for both your sakes.
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I haven’t discussed what would happen in the event of a pregnancy beforehand, but I do tell them that if we don’t use protection, I’ll add the cost of the pill plus a little extra to the allowance. If the condom slips off, I’ll pay for the morning-after pill.
I believe any further responsibility for the risks lies with the woman, but I don’t spell that out.
So far, I haven’t had any problems. If someone told me she was pregnant, I’d handle it depending on the situation. Basically, I’d plan to brush her off by saying things like, “I already paid for the medication, so anything beyond that is your responsibility,” or, “Are you sure it’s mine? You must be seeing someone else.”
However, if I were certain—or even not completely certain—that I was the father, if she were a favorite, or if it looked like things might turn into a dispute, I’d consider paying for the procedure plus a little extra unavoidable.
I wouldn’t consider having her carry the pregnancy to term at all.
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I’m not trying to conceive with any of these women, so we haven’t discussed it in advance.
If one of them became pregnant, I’d be willing to have a sincere discussion if I was certain I was the only person she was seeing. If she had other partners, though, my stance would be more along the lines of being willing to discuss the situation, and no more.
The answer would vary depending on each person’s circumstances and the nature of the relationship. Besides, when you say “arrangements,” it sounds as though the two of them are actively trying to conceive together. I honestly had no idea what this question—or rather, survey—was even trying to find out.
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