When I receive my allowance, what’s the proper and most polite way to put it away if I’m given the bills loose?
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Should I put the money straight into my wallet in front of him, or fold it in half and temporarily put it in my bag or pocket, then transfer it to my wallet later? I always feel a little awkward when I’m handed my allowance, so I’d appreciate knowing what would be considered the ideal way to handle it.
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None of the women I’ve met put the money straight into their wallets. Most of them folded it and tucked it away in their bags.
Personally, I don’t really mind either way.
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I hand it over loose, without an envelope.
I don’t really know what the women do with it afterward, since I’ve never paid much attention. They could simply take it in their hands, or put it in their bag. I don’t recall seeing them put it straight into their wallet. Maybe they put it in their wallet after we said goodbye.
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There’s really no right or wrong way to hand over cash. Just put it away quickly, and I think any method is fine.
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Why not treat it like you’re just close friends? These days, maybe go cashless?
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Since people have different sensibilities, I don’t think there’s one ideal approach that works for everyone.
Ideally, you should learn the man’s preferences and act accordingly. So in my opinion, the furthest thing from ideal is ignoring the person you’re actually seeing and basing your behavior on the preferences of complete strangers.
Even among men who give an allowance, some hand it over directly without an envelope, while others use one. And even those who use envelopes have different preferences, such as whether to use a brown paper envelope.
Personally, I’m not interested in how a woman puts away the bills, and I feel it would be vulgar to watch, so I make a point of not looking. Staring into someone else’s wallet or bag would be distasteful too.
As for me, I try to avoid putting bills loose in my pockets or bag whenever possible.
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