I’m 29 and recently started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’ve met a few men, and while the mediocre older guys tell me they’d like to see me again, the men I find attractive haven’t invited me out again.

Everyone wants what they can’t have. There are plenty of rivals for both good papas and good papa-katsu girls, so once they find someone they like, they move on to them. As Basil-san said, improving your conversation skills isn’t easy, so you could work on your bedroom skills, or make yourself tighter down there (for example, with hyaluronic acid injections). Or the easiest option is to do your absolute best to fulfill all of your partner’s bedroom requests. A lot of women have quite a few things they won’t do or seem reluctant about, so being obedient in bed and catering to their preferences might be a good idea. As for Fuu’s preferences (not that anyone asked, lol), they’re 69, from behind, and a clean-up blowjob—but that last one is pretty difficult, lol.

Why not aim to be great in bed, or the kind of easygoing woman who listens carefully to what her partner wants? You’ll be in far higher demand than someone who’s merely a little attractive or good at conversation.

Maybe you should have started six or seven years earlier. As you approach 30, I think it’s important to try to build a life where you don’t need an allowance through your own efforts. You only get one life, so it would be a waste not to try, think things through, and explore your possibilities so you have no regrets. Even so, if things really don’t work out, you can always come back, can’t you?

Same ID as the posts below. This is the 10th question. They were listed as a man in his 50s only once—why is that? It doesn’t seem particularly malicious, though. As for my answer: everyone has their place and should know their limits, but luck also plays a part. If you keep at it without getting too greedy, you might just meet a good man. ---------- I like my papa (a male supporter), but he only wants to be intimate with me and doesn’t actually like me. I could tell from his attitude. I’m not sure whether I should continue seeing him... 2024/07/31 12:18 Woman in her 20s, Universe female member 82879 There was a question about receiving ¥500,000 for one meeting. She must be extremely beautiful, right? She’s a Black-class member, isn’t she? Even if it’s not ¥500,000 per meeting, would someone really give around ¥300,000...? 2024/06/19 12:03 Woman in her 20s, inexperienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) 82879 My papa’s bad breath is unbelievably awful. He has a wonderful personality and I respect him as a person, but his breath is unbearably bad. What should I do...? 2024/06/12 01:26 Woman in her 20s, Universe female member 82879 Should I avoid stingy papas? For example, when they choose a cheap restaurant for the first meeting or specify a location near their own home. 2024/06/10 00:09 Woman in her 20s, Universe female member 82879 For Relationship Type A, when should I bring up the allowance? At the first meeting, do you only receive transportation expenses? 2024/06/07 10:41 Woman in her 20s, inexperienced with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) 82879 What kind of women do men block or decide not to see again after one meeting, even though their looks are decent enough for Platinum? For example, being overbearing, lacking common sense... 2024/06/03 16:36 Woman in her 20s, Universe female member 82879 Why is Letter Date only available to BLACK members? 2024/06/02 11:34 Man in his 50s, Universe male member 82879 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/16820 I’m going on my first date tomorrow. When is the transportation allowance usually given? Is it enough to say, “Thank you,” with a smile...? 2024/06/02 09:55 Woman in her 20s, Universe female member 82879 When I go to the profile of the person who made me an offer through Universe, there’s no Black or Platinum mark. However, the offer... 2024/06/02 09:51 Woman in her 20s, Universe female member 82879

Your posts are pretty ordinary and uninteresting, after all. It may be difficult to become smarter from this point on and gain experiences that will interest other people. But if you want to become the kind of woman that wonderful, intelligent men would want to date, I think you should put your all into trying things you’ve never done before.

If you’re getting offers but they don’t lead to ongoing arrangements, could it be that you’re lacking the appeal needed for an adult relationship (intimate)?