Tips Nov 29, 2024 11:58

Is it normal for my papa (a male supporter) to never invite me out and always leave it to me to make the plans?

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It makes me hesitant to reach out because I start wondering if he doesn’t really like me that much.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
What you’re saying makes no sense. It’s precisely when he might not be that into you that you should take the initiative and ask him out. You need to flatter him and draw out his interest. How long have you been doing this?
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Oh, I see. So most of the people answering are generally waiting for the women to get in touch first. I make plans for the next meeting on the day we meet—usually once a month. If our schedules don’t line up, we arrange for the month after next. With that approach, Fuu becomes a good papa (a male supporter) for women who want a stable monthly arrangement, haha. No wonder my monthly arrangements have been lasting so long lately lol.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t invite the girls who are my absolute favorites. They always invite me first. Since I provide them with substantial support, they reach out to me without waiting for an invitation. I think it’s because they want to keep me around. For girls I see irregularly—in other words, those who aren’t quite as special to me—I’ll invite them myself when I can’t meet one of my favorites, for example. There are papas like me, so it seems that not being invited doesn’t necessarily mean she isn’t interested in you.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Like the other people who answered, I rarely make the first move either. To me, it’s normal for the man not to initiate. That said, there seem to be men who actively make the first move, so I suppose that’s normal too. I think both are perfectly normal.
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Personally, I’d say that’s pretty normal. I’ve been less motivated to go out lately, and I’m still in touch with around five girls, so I generally don’t initiate plans. If they invite me and our schedules happen to line up, we meet about once every two or three months.
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’re asking whether it’s normal, I’d say it is. At hostess clubs and adult entertainment venues, only a small handful of women get regular bookings without having to reach out to customers themselves. Most of them work hard at promoting themselves. Whether you’re the one doing the inviting or he is, if things are continuing smoothly, I think that’s perfectly fine.
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