I always enjoy reading this Q&A site, but this is my first time posting a question.
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Anyway, I first registered exclusively with Universe Club in April. I’m also completely new to this kind of activity, so starting after turning 40, I feel like I’m a very late bloomer…
I assumed there probably wouldn’t be much demand for me, so I figured I’d be lucky if I received any offers at all. But I ended up receiving around 30 offers after registering initially. (Thank you!)
However, I recently had new photos taken, and it’s been almost a month since then, but I’ve only received a few offers. I’m a little curious about what might have caused such a sharp decline.
(The fact that the new photos were taken against the light and didn’t turn out very well could be one reason…)
At first, I wondered if there was some special value in being newly registered, but then again, given my age, maybe that isn’t it.
I’ve heard that offers tend to decrease after the initial surge, but by roughly what percentage do they usually drop?
For those of you who are active on the site, how much difference was there between the number of offers you received when you first registered and the number you received afterward?
It suddenly got me wondering, so I thought I’d post the question. Thank you in advance!
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Was she the woman in her 40s who received 28 offers, two of them after the reshoot?
If so, I get the feeling her previous outfit was more likely to attract offers. The outfit she wore this time may have had a nice design, but perhaps wearing higher-quality clothing actually makes it harder to receive offers.
Other than that, I don’t see any particular reason why her offers would have decreased. However, the staff comment says that she seems to enjoy going on dates with her existing papas, so I wonder if many men might lose interest after reading that.
Still, since there weren’t any other obvious negatives, I think her situation is probably typical:
She received the most offers when she first registered, and fewer after that. Some women stop receiving offers altogether.
The reason is simple. When someone first registers, almost all the male members at that point will see her profile. After a reshoot, however, she’ll probably only be seen by newer members—essentially, men who joined during those six months.
After that, offers mainly come from newly joined men who happen to like her profile. So receiving one or two offers a month would actually be quite good.
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In places where men and women meet, regular male members tend to flock to women who are attending, registering, or joining for the first time. I feel that many men simply aren’t interested in anyone who isn’t new.
After just three days, a woman’s profile can already get pushed so far down that it’s practically invisible.
So unless she’s been added to someone’s favorites, getting an offer several months later seems extremely unlikely.
I think the men who make the first offers are also more likely to be genuinely interested and for things to develop. If you miss that opportunity, what happens then?
I also worry that as women gain more experience, their chances of things working out may gradually decrease. An offer that comes months later may mean the man wasn’t interested enough to reach out right away—or that he didn’t really mind either way whether he made the offer.
It seems more important to approach things sincerely without getting too greedy.
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Has your profile changed significantly?
If you switched branches or changed your dating type, you’d be reaching out to a completely different demographic. But if nothing has changed that much, I can’t see why your offers would suddenly increase.
The average number of offers is publicly available:
https://universe-club.jp/women/female-data/
Coming from someone with 30 offers, this question just sounds like bragging.
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