I’m very sorry about my earlier question—it was extremely inappropriate.

Which part is your true feeling, and what are you really trying to ask? I can’t tell, so I’ll answer however I like. If your husband is the kind of person who does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), he’s probably fooling around in all sorts of other ways too. And since your husband has a position and probably earns plenty, why don’t you try mama-katsu, a female-oriented escort service, or host clubs yourself? Get revenge by having as much sex as you want with a young man. You only get one life—just spending your time resenting him and complaining is such a waste lol. You don’t feel sexually attracted to your husband anymore, do you? That’s just how human genes are wired, so it can’t be helped. Give up and take action! Why not go to Thailand or somewhere and buy yourself a young man? A female friend of mine apparently went to Thailand with some other women and had an amazing time. Opinions from the “morality police” have no meaning or place here lol.

This isn’t really the right forum for women who are devastated after discovering that their spouse has been engaging in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Women whose partners have cheated or are addicted to sex work have always existed. The term papa-katsu may be new, but discovering a male partner’s infidelity and recovering from it are not new problems. There are support groups and communities for women who have gone through the same thing. Rather than just adding fuel to the fire, it feels like they’re dropping napalm on it over and over.

If that’s the case, they could’ve just reposted the question without changing their ID. I wonder if they were so flustered that they scrambled to cover it up. Could it be the nostalgic A? Being specifically requested by President Kida is kind of his thing, after all. We really don’t need anyone providing topics or adding fuel to the fire. Let’s move on from that very Heisei-era 2channel mindset. It’s starting to feel rather old-fashioned.

Even with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), matters between men and women often happen for reasons that are only natural, and because both parties have their own motivations. Generally speaking, there are probably many cases where the wife is actually relieved by her husband’s papa-katsu—she doesn’t have to be bothered at home, and he can “take care of things” elsewhere. It also means they can spend less time together. How many times a month—or dozens of times, perhaps—are you writing these questions?