Thank you for your question.
My name is Kurosaki from the Shinsaibashi branch of Universe Club.
In the past, we were able to treat someone as a new registration, but unfortunately, we can no longer reset their status...
(New female members tend to receive more offers, so I’d honestly love to reset it too.)
Women who have taken a long break often receive a better response than those who have been active continuously, so we try to address that in their profiles.
As for how to respond, perhaps something like:
“Men seem to have some reservations because I’ve been active for a long time...
I don’t have any papa (male supporters) I’m currently seeing regularly either, so I’m very happy that you invited me this time, Mr. ○○♪”
Something along those lines?
You’re right—it does seem strange that if you withdraw once, remain inactive for several years, and then decide to start again and register as a new member, your original registration date from before you withdrew is still displayed.
That said, many staff members seem to want to retain various pieces of past information because otherwise there could be problems, such as the same man making you an offer again. (Personally, I think that if the man made a mistake, he could simply go on another date with her, but in most cases it ends up becoming a complaint.)
Still, the date information from past dates and your previous registration date are two separate matters. It seems only logical that the date you registered this time should be displayed as your registration date. I’ll suggest that they change it so the registration date is shown accordingly, but there are many staff members who oppose this—or rather, many who don’t want to deal with complaints from men. Ultimately, though, the issue stems from the male members themselves—so please don’t get your hopes up too much.
The questioner probably hasn’t noticed this, and it may not be the answer they’re looking for, but I think becoming comfortable with telling those kinds of “lies” is the biggest aftereffect of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
People often say it numbs your sense of money, but once you run out of money, you have no choice but to cut back, so your spending habits quickly return to normal. However, once you get used to lying, it starts to interfere with your everyday life. The questioner can’t see exactly how, because what’s being affected is your “credibility.”
I’ve said this several times, but: “You shouldn’t lie, because when the time comes in the future that you really need to tell a big lie, no one will believe you anymore.” I wish they taught that in elementary school.
That said, papa-katsu itself is basically built on lies. You have to say you like someone you don’t actually like, and you have to make the appropriate sounds during sex. Wasn’t there a saying that “women are made of lies”? Even makeup is kind of like painting a lie onto your face.
With that in mind, let me say this: taking the stance of “I’m an honest woman who doesn’t embellish things with little lies” is itself the most effective lie of all. Got it?
To put it even more simply, when a woman honestly lists her original registration date in her Univa profile, that’s specifically meant to make male members think, “Univa is a place that doesn’t lie when introducing women.”
Once they have that impression, the promotional text that follows—“What we recommend about this woman is…”—starts to seem more believable, right? That’s why this kind of honesty is necessary for Univa’s business.
As for those miracle shots where a woman looks incredibly cute in her private photos—or whether they’ve been edited—the male members compare those pictures with the photos taken by Univa and use them to gauge how much she lies.
It’s not as though you should embellish everything with lies. It’s the same as makeup. Women tend to be rather insensitive to that distinction and immediately want to exaggerate everything.
Your age and registration date are “honesty” tools that Univa has thoughtfully provided, so please use them wisely.
