A woman I had been seeing more than 50 times over the course of a year and a half suddenly stopped responding.
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She’s in her mid-20s and works part-time as a maid. I honestly can’t think of anything I did that would make her cut me off, and until recently, we were still meeting three or four times a month.
Recently, she invited me to meet, but on the day, she messaged me saying that her period had started and she wanted to cancel because of cramps. She also said she’d like to see me again once it was over and would contact me around then.
Exactly one week later, since I hadn’t heard from her, I messaged her yesterday morning to ask how she was doing and say that, if she was feeling better, I’d like to meet next week.
But as of this afternoon, she still hasn’t even read the message.
She’s always been pretty casual about messaging and tends to reply slowly, often at the last minute, but does this mean she’s cut me off?
Well, these things happen sometimes.
I don’t know why.
If he hasn’t been in touch, I guess it’s probably over.
At least it’s better than him ghosting you after making plans to meet again.
Let’s look for your next woman.
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There was also a woman in the past who said that she had dropped her phone in water and lost all her LINE contacts.
At this point, I don’t think we can say for sure what happened, so I’d suggest waiting and seeing what happens for about two more weeks.
That said, relationships can end suddenly. Common reasons include getting a boyfriend or deciding to get married.
If you still don’t hear back after waiting two weeks, I think it would be best to leave it as a good memory and not try to contact them again.
As I was writing this, I thought, “Wait, wasn’t there a similar question in the Q&A box recently?” So I looked, and is it this one?
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17255
Does that mean the same person was writing while switching between a male and female persona? And did they intentionally include the “one and a half years” detail so that someone would notice the two stories were the same?
We really don’t need this kind of fabricated content anymore. Because of made-up questions, there’s a risk that people with genuine problems may be mistaken for fakes and end up not receiving any answers.
I wish people would stop uploading fictional stories for their own amusement.
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Maybe they left their phone on the train, at a store, while traveling, at work, at a friend’s place, or somewhere else…
Or it broke and they can’t use it…
Or they simply didn’t notice your LINE message…
Or they were busy…
Either way, if they’re going to get back to you, they will eventually.
I don’t think you need to worry about it too much.
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The amount of time before deciding you’ve been cut off because your message is still unread varies from person to person, I guess.
In my case, I’ve even gotten replies six months later. By then, I see the LINE notification and think, “Who is this again?” lol
If you can’t wait, why not look for another woman? You may end up dating more women as a result, though. hahaha
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The fact is, it’s only been left unread for a day and a half.
Since the person asking the question has the most information, if they interpret a day and a half of being left unread as being cut off, then I suppose that’s what it means to them. There also seems to be a lot of information missing from the question.
Personally, though, I wouldn’t worry even if it stayed unread for a week. Unread is just unread. Actually, with LINE, messages quickly get buried, and I usually forget about them. Then it’s fun when a reply arrives just as I’ve forgotten about it.
Reading all kinds of meaning into every little thing someone does—that’s probably what being lovesick is.
Questions like, “What’s the hidden psychology behind ○○?” are probably either signs of lovesickness or just a bundle of worldly desires.
For survival-strategy or survival-instinct reasons, people tend to interpret things negatively. But getting depressed over a negative interpretation is pointless when your life isn’t actually at stake.
It’s more enjoyable if you consciously let go of assigning meaning and interpreting everything, haha.
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