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Oct 1, 2024 20:37
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
So tacky!
A truly wealthy person doesn’t need to say it—their wealth shows without them having to mention it.
I guess they don’t actually have that much money. Or maybe they’re talking about the salary they give their wife? lol
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Probably because you’ve only met once.
That said, I don’t think things are likely to go the way you want from here on out. The reason? You’re asking about it here. Try thinking things through a little more for yourself and doing what you can.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
It doesn’t look like there’s any history of past questions under this ID.
> Is it because it was our first time meeting? Or is he luring me in with a made-up story? Is he just showing off?
Why isn’t “Could it be because he decided I’m not worth that much?” one of the possibilities?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Are you the same person who asked, “Why is it that the men who make a point of showing off how wealthy they are…”?
Saying, “I was supporting her with ¥300,000 a month” is a way of showing off his wealth. People who make that kind of boast usually aren’t actually that rich.
Besides, if things had gone well with that woman, he wouldn’t be telling the story in the first place. From the woman’s perspective, it likely means either:
- He was a man she didn’t even want to see, despite receiving ¥300,000; or
- He paid ¥300,000 but quickly ended things himself because he decided it wasn’t worth it.
Either way, he’s not exactly a great man.
In reality, the men who don’t show off like that are often the more impressive ones. Of course, having money doesn’t necessarily mean they’ll spend it on a woman. After that, it all depends on how much the woman can entertain and please the man.
To sum up:
1. Truly wealthy men don’t show off their wealth.
2. Even if you meet a wealthy man, whether he spends money on you depends on the woman.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Personally, I think men who bring up a monthly arrangement from the very first meeting are coming on too strong.