How would you feel if your PJ—someone you’ve gotten fairly close to over the past two years—said she wanted to work at a hostess club and then actually started?
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When I mentioned it to my papa, he said, “Apparently there are quite a few weird people at that place.”
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I once introduced a female university student with absolutely no experience in the nightlife industry to an SM bar. She’d said she wanted to try working nights.
In the end, she learned how to serve even customers with unusual kinks, became well-liked by both the mama and the owner, and even got help finding a job after graduation—the owner also ran a separate business, so he was able to put in a word for her there. She even found a boyfriend and happily graduated from her papa-katsu arrangement with me this spring.
By the way, at an SM bar, people with unconventional interests simply gather to drink; nothing sexual takes place. SM clubs, on the other hand, are adult-entertainment establishments.
She works in sales now, but we’re still on good terms, and I answer her on LINE whenever she has a small problem or needs advice.
She really made clever use of the opportunities available to her and opened up her own path in life.
I know other girls who graduated from papa-katsu and have continued to maintain genuinely pleasant relationships with good people afterward. That’s the best possible way for it to end, isn’t it?
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The questioner’s papa sounds like he’s saying it in a pretty unpleasant way.
If it were Fuu, though, I’d be able to support her…
A woman I used to date started working at a sex cabaret partway through, instead of a regular hostess club. She had originally been a nursing student from a single-parent family and wanted to pay off her student loans sooner. She was a good kid, so even though it was only a part-time job, she became the number-one hostess.
The only things that weren’t great were that she sometimes smelled like alcohol on our dates and occasionally had a hoarse voice. Other than that, it didn’t bother me at all.
She messaged customers constantly to get them to nominate her and order bottles, but she always said she wouldn’t do anything with her sex-cabaret customers.
She’d show me the messages and photos from the club, giving me that smug feeling of, “See? I can do this too,” lol.
We eventually split up because she got pregnant and married her boyfriend, but she still sends me photos of her child via LINE to this day.
That’s the story of one woman.
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I think people fall into two camps: those who prefer being around more people when working, meeting clients, or hanging out with friends, and those who prefer being alone together.
Since you and the man you’re seeing have been together for two years, it seems like he may have some of the former tendency, so I think it should be fine.
Personally, even if I were paid, I wouldn’t want to go to a hostess-club-like environment, so I’d end things. On the other hand, if it were a men’s relaxation salon where it’s just the two of you, I’d support you.
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Hostesses who use romantic tactics to win over customers and women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) seem no different to me.
That said, I suppose you don’t like it when your papa (a male supporter) does that to you.
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I’m extremely supportive.
I used to go to hostess clubs every week, so with the hostesses I was close to, I enjoyed thinking together about how to get more nominations and boost their sales.
**Update:**
When I say I’m supportive, I don’t mean I go to hostess clubs. If I have money to spend there, I’d rather increase her allowance.
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