From a woman’s perspective, which would be preferable:
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Pay-per-meeting at 80,000 yen twice a month (160,000 yen monthly), or
Pay-per-meeting at 70,000 yen three times a month (210,000 yen monthly)?
I realize it probably varies from person to person.
If I were a woman, I’d probably prefer pay-per-meeting at 80,000 yen.
There’s no guarantee they’ll actually see you again, after all.
To me, it just sounds like they’re asking, “Which is better, 80,000 or 70,000 per meeting?”
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Some women get few or no offers, so in that sense, both of you are fortunate.
As long as the terms work for both the papa and you, either option is fine.
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It probably depends on the person, but I’ve been asked something similar when discussing the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate). Personally, I’d definitely choose ¥80,000 per pay-per-meeting arrangement, twice a month.
If he has a regular job, meeting twice a month is easier to coordinate than meeting three times, and there’s no guarantee he’ll actually meet me three times.
That said, if you ask him directly, all your questions will be answered!
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- If you need the money: 7 per meeting, three times a month (21 per month)
- If you don’t need that much money: 8 per meeting, twice a month (16 per month)
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As others have said, it depends on the person, so the surest thing is to ask the woman directly.
That said, if you set the relationship aspect aside, I feel that many women would prefer 80,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement. Still, the difference between 70,000 and 80,000 yen feels so small that it’s hard to say.
If you want a clearer comparison, wouldn’t it be better to keep the total amount similar and ask:
“Which would you prefer: 100,000 yen twice a month (200,000 yen/month), or 70,000 yen three times a month (210,000 yen/month)?”
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It depends on the person.
Someone with plenty of free time might be fine with meeting more often, while someone with a busy schedule might prefer a higher allowance per meeting.
Besides, there’s hardly any difference between 70,000 and 80,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement, so I don’t think there’s any need to compare them.
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It probably depends on the person, but I’d say that answer is basically right.
Allow me to offer some advice from a different perspective: monthly arrangements are difficult.
What would you do if she got her period on your third date of the month? If you’re willing to just have dinner and be okay with that, she’ll see you as an ideal papa (a male supporter), and there’s little risk of her ending things with you.
On the other hand, there are also women who take advantage of this and deliberately schedule dates around when they expect to be on their period. If you’re dealing with someone who doesn’t show any gratitude—no “I’m really sorry it’s only dinner. I really love you, papa”—and simply assumes that a day like that should still count as one of the monthly meetings, you’ll probably be the one ending things.
To sum up, I assume that someone asking this kind of question is new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I think you should avoid monthly arrangements for now.
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