My beloved author Junichiro Tanizaki’s strange work *Diary of a Mad Old Man* features an elderly man who has completely lost his sexual function as its protagonist. Yet even after losing that function, he confesses, “I still have a certain kind of sexual desire.”
The questioner’s papa (a male supporter) can still get an erection, so he probably hasn’t completely lost his function. Perhaps getting an erection from kissing is the goal for him. I’m in a similar situation myself.
The other day, after buying lingerie in Umeda, I took a taxi to a certain hotel and put on a lingerie show in the room. She changed into the lingerie she had just bought right in front of me, and I used the Womanizer Duo Bordeaux I had purchased beforehand. The lingerie—if you can call it a shame—ended up soaked enough to wring out, but I was thoroughly satisfied.
Afterward, we moved to the hotel’s Chinese restaurant and enjoyed some Peking duck.
What I’m trying to say is that ejaculation isn’t the only source of satisfaction. It may be a hassle, though.
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Interesting situation.
So, you kissed, your papa (a male supporter) got hard, but he turned down sex—is that right?
And this happened because you suddenly made a move on a day you weren’t scheduled to meet, correct?
Just guessing at the reasons, haha:
- He wanted to save his sperm because he was seeing another woman the next day
- He was worried about losing his erection because he didn’t have any ED medication with him
- He’d already been with another woman too much the day before and probably couldn’t finish anymore
Something along those lines, lol.
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> For men with ED (who are prone to losing their erection)
I don’t think people fall into two groups—those who hesitate and those who don’t—based on whether or not they have ED.
Some men with ED may not hesitate, while some men without ED may hesitate. I’m not sure why you categorized them as “men with ED” in the first place.
Setting that aside, perhaps something like this happened:
1. He had been intimate with another woman earlier that day.
2. He had plans to go on a date with another woman later that day.
Or maybe he simply happened to be short on money that day?
There probably isn’t much to gain from overthinking it, so for your own peace of mind, it may be best to assume what was stated in the original question:
“Men with ED hesitate when you invite them out unexpectedly.”
In reality, I don’t think that generalization really means anything, though.
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Hmm, that’s a mystery.
If he tends to lose his erection during sex, it could be a case of ejaculation difficulties during vaginal intercourse. I don’t think ED is necessarily the only possible cause.
Since you ended up meeting on short notice, I assume he was the one who invited you. He got an erection after kissing you, but then left without taking things any further.
Maybe penetration wasn’t his goal in the first place. If you come on too strongly to a man like that, he might pull away.
I really can’t say for sure, but all you can do is adapt to him, be attentive, and try to figure out what he’s looking for. Maybe he has a fetish for cuckolding—only getting aroused after a woman has been with another man—and is trying to figure out how to bring that up. As Kazu said, though, this is the kind of thing no one but the person himself can really know.
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The reasons are just as Makeo-san wrote.
Even so, in my case, I accept when I’m invited. It’s not a monthly arrangement, and the allowance differs between adult relationships and dinner dates, so I feel like I prioritize giving the adult-relationship allowance—partly because I want to do what makes the woman happy.
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I’m not impotent, but when I turn someone down, it’s because I have an adult date with my main PJ that day or the next.
I’m just being careful not to waste it. Some girls get suspicious that you’re cheating if you don’t finish a lot, after all.
If he’s married, maybe he’s intimate with his wife, too.
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