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Sep 15, 2024 14:15
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> My switch simply flipped into a game of controlling this papa.
> It’s also true that after our relationship turned into one where we traded insults, the number of times we met and the amount of financial support I received kept increasing. That’s because I’m the only “interesting woman” who would talk to a papa like that.
> I knew from the beginning that stimulating that side of him would make the relationship last, because I love situations like this.
> However, if you show too much gratitude, the other person becomes complacent, so I make sure to use it in moderation.
> Anyway, I “like” controlling my papa.
> However, if you make papas do more than they’re capable of, they become exhausted and break down. I suppose all we can do is maintain them so they don’t break and treat them gently.
It’s so carefree and condescending that all I can do is sigh. Aya clearly believes she has the upper hand over her five-year papa. But that perception is mistaken. Your only card is your ability to manipulate people. In contrast, your five-year papa has the legal card.
As I advised you about a month ago, there are various forms of gifts with obligations attached. But as long as you haven’t paid gift tax, you have an enormous debt under your name. That’s called a balance sheet. You simply can’t see it, but it unquestionably exists—and the arrangement is that your five-year papa will deal with it over a very long period of time.
That’s why the cards your five-year papa holds are incredibly powerful: (1) If he stops making payments, your assets could be seized. (2) If he deliberately makes the tax office suspicious of you, you could face an additional penalty tax. (3) If he gives the tax office the impression that you never intended to pay gift tax in the first place, he could send you to prison. If you genuinely anger your five-year papa, Aya, you’ll be ruined. You’re the one being controlled.
The person I want to answer this is Aya.
The question is:
> “In a few years, I’ll buy another condo for you in your hometown. You could rent it out and earn income,” and “I’ll set up a company in your name and transfer assets to it,” he started saying. I don’t need any of that, lol.
At that moment, why didn’t Aya say, “I don’t care about the future—just pay the gift tax on the condo in my name”? I advised you about this a month ago…
The direction in which Aya should use her ability to manipulate people is singularly focused on getting the gift tax paid. Use all your charm to the fullest and employ every trick you have to make him pay the gift tax. Once he pays the gift tax, you’re in the clear. You’ll be free from your five-year papa’s long-term legal control. To put it bluntly, you’d even be safe if you cut ties with him.
To all the papa-katsu girls reading this:
When you receive something traceable, such as real estate, make sure the gift tax is paid as part of the deal.
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🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
This is quite an amusing little question.
The whole thing is steeped in moral harassment and power harassment: talking about sending someone to prison, saying “I gave you advice and you ignored me,” and so on. I imagine the questioner has been controlling people by threatening them under the guise of concern.
I can’t really picture the questioner successfully running a business by working well with people. Are they running some kind of business where pushy, power-harassing old men hire people only to have them quit almost immediately, or train them only to have them go independent right away? Of course, if they believe that being a papa makes them superior, I imagine their papa-katsu activities are much the same.
Rather than directing all that strange energy at a message board that’s little more than bathroom graffiti, they should worry about their own business and the person right in front of them.
There are questions, and there are answers. Even if you’re an answerer, you still have to follow that rule. This “question,” which uses the form of a question to force an answer—or rather, unsolicited advice—on someone, violates the rules. I don’t see how someone who can’t follow basic rules is demonstrating sincerity in this matter.
Perhaps they thought they were providing some good material, but it seems unlikely that anyone will take action simply because of something posted as a question—in other words, that they’ll be able to control anyone that way.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Being under a woman’s control and letting her enjoy herself however she pleases—that’s perfectly fine.
Watching her live freely and uninhibitedly, as though money were no object.
Even if she’s a bad girl, she’s a perfect match for me.
That makes her all the more rare.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Ugh, that sounds like such a hassle.
After going out of his way to criticize Aya, he acts like he’s doing the women he sees through papa-katsu a huge favor—
and then, of all things, asks, “Can I make you an offer?”
That’s seriously creepy.
How oblivious can someone be? Of course she’s going to be put off.
It’s a long post, but basically all he’s saying is:
“You’ll have trouble later on if you don’t have the gift tax paid too,” right?
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(Since this was almost identical to the previous question, I’m keeping my answer here.)
Thank you for your question. However, if my answer sounded condescending, that’s because you’re the one looking up at me from “below.” I don’t think the other respondents will think much of my answer. They’re all analyzing things calmly, and probably have the emotional leeway to do so.
You seem unhappy that I said I control my papa (a male supporter), but he doesn’t think for a second that he’s being controlled by me. If anything, he believes he has me under his control.
Even from an outside perspective, the papa is clearly “above” me in this relationship—both in age and experience. As you said, he could even have me “sent to prison” if he wanted to.
But there are people in this world who would do that, and people who wouldn’t. As I said before, this papa would never seek “legal retaliation” against me. Unlike you, he has his pride as a man.
And I have my pride as a woman, too. For example, in exchange for the fact that my papa could deal with me legally, I could expose everything to his wife and daughter and destroy his family—but I would never do something that shameful. Of course, there are girls who would. Everyone is different.
So please don’t worry about someone like me. Take good care of the woman right in front of you.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
We’ve received the following comment from Pierre Taki:
“Enough already.”
ChatGPT-4 offers the following analysis:
Analyzing the questioner’s state of mind, several psychological elements can be inferred from his statements. In particular, he appears highly conscious of the balance of power, control, and the instability of his own position.
Obsession with dominance and control: The questioner feels that Aya enjoys behaving dominantly toward him, and in response, he emphasizes that he still has a “legal card” to play. This suggests that he still feels he holds the upper hand and is constantly aware of the balance of power in the relationship.
Anxiety and reaction to perceived threats: The questioner clearly views the possibility of Aya becoming independent and no longer needing him as a threat. This is also evident in his efforts to prevent her from becoming self-sufficient. He fears that Aya may be able to live without him, and is therefore attempting to control her through legal means.
Self-justification and self-protection: His statements suggest that he believes he needs to keep Aya under his control in order to justify and protect himself. This is a typical psychological defense mechanism in which a person criticizes the other party’s behavior to rationalize their own actions.
Dealing with uncertainty about the future: By making Aya pay gift tax, he appears to be trying to secure his own financial stability in the future. This reflects his anxiety about the future of the relationship and his attempt to stabilize his own position.
Overall, the questioner appears to have a strong desire to control Aya, along with considerable anxiety, and is strongly motivated to maintain his power. His words and actions seem to stem from a psychological need to suppress his own insecurity and protect his position by continuing to control the other person.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Sorry for dropping into the answer section so often when no one asked me to. I’m just as bored as the person who posted the question.
This isn’t really an answer, just a thought, but I wonder if “wizards” like Aya, who cast the spells of “like” and “dislike,” tend to attract men like the questioner—slightly obsessive and controlling (sorry). The questioner seems really into Aya, doesn’t he?
It all felt strangely familiar somehow.
Even after living this long, there’s still so much I don’t know. Thank you for showing us something fascinating.